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Topic: getting over the past?
ganesh4u's photo
Thu 03/12/09 09:59 PM
what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:04 PM
I still struggle with some things... But for the most part I walked away, held my head high and concentrated on other things...

I_am_will's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:04 PM
move

scotty1964's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:06 PM
just dont........and drink and listen to zappa alot and then wake up and if theres no work then just drink and cry....:wink:

ganesh4u's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:08 PM

I still struggle with some things... But for the most part I walked away, held my head high and concentrated on other things...


but why does it happen that u still want to go back to your past........even though u know it hurts......

I_am_will's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:09 PM
masochism

rockyn2020's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:13 PM

what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????


You dont let anything take away fromn who you realy are as a person, learn from the bed experiences and look ahead.

Yep i cant say i don't look back sometimes and it hurts, but i do know the my values and prespective of the world wont change by circumstances.

rockyn2020's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:14 PM

I still struggle with some things... But for the most part I walked away, held my head high and concentrated on other things...


Agreed

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:16 PM


what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????


You dont let anything take away fromn who you realy are as a person, learn from the bed experiences and look ahead.

Yep i cant say i don't look back sometimes and it hurts, but i do know the my values and prespective of the world wont change by circumstances.



He's right... If it hurts we have to walk away... Maybe we look back b/c there were good times and we did love them, but that doesn't mean they're good for us..

IreneRose's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:18 PM

just dont........and drink and listen to zappa alot and then wake up and if theres no work then just drink and cry....:wink:


This method is tried and true.


no photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:50 PM

what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????
forgiveness for yourself and the other personflowerforyou

no photo
Thu 03/12/09 11:00 PM

what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????


Just drop the whole thing and move on. And be sure to give your ex both barrels if she comes wanting to talk to you in the future.

Atlantis75's photo
Fri 03/13/09 12:51 AM

what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????


In time, it will happen by itself, meanwhile start doing some new things, find some new places and new stuff to do. It'll go faster.

lovethelord's photo
Fri 03/13/09 06:27 AM


I still struggle with some things... But for the most part I walked away, held my head high and concentrated on other things...


but why does it happen that u still want to go back to your past........even though u know it hurts......

because you like pain???
Just move forward and time will heal the pain...flowerforyou

talldub's photo
Fri 03/13/09 07:00 AM

what can u do to get over your past and make a new start in life????
I think it really depends on what you're trying to get over. There are no quick fixes but i don't believe that there's anything you can't overcome, from an emotional viewpoint at least. Care to share some more?

DragonFlyTat's photo
Fri 03/13/09 07:38 AM
think positive energy and put it out there and positive things will open up to you....don't dwell on the negative out there it will only bring you to a place that nobody wants to be...when I left I knew that I had to for the sake of my children and my own sanity...

mark77's photo
Fri 03/13/09 09:51 AM
Be good with who you are and forgive the other person and yourself.

You can always forgive, you just wont forget.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 03/13/09 09:52 AM
Gte over the past by buying yourself a present

Jungian101's photo
Fri 03/13/09 09:54 AM
just move forward and learn form your mistakes. Don't rip pver the same rock.

We are all the sum of the places we have been and the people we have known. drinker

Jungian101's photo
Fri 03/13/09 09:55 AM

just move forward and learn form your mistakes. Don't trip over the same rock.

We are all the sum of the places we have been and the people we have known. drinker

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