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Topic: WHY IN THE WORLD
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Sun 03/15/09 11:26 AM



WHY IN THE WORLD WHEN MEN SAY THAT THEY WANT A "REAL WOMAN"? THEY RUN FOR THE HILLS WHEN THEY SEE HER COMING. I AM SO TRIED OF THAT.


Just because a woman sees herself as being 'real', it doesn't necessarily and automatically mean that the man she desires is going to be interested in and attracted to her, based solely on that fact.

There's a lot more involved in relationships than that.

Well i have been talking to this gut for a a month now and it has gone no where i mean he only call or hangout when he wants something from me that is like crap you know

Hummmmmm well first of all it is not real clear if this person you're talking about is one you see in person or online.

Not sure what all you mean when you say hangout with you has it went any farther then just you two talking to each other?

I do understand you may want more then just a friendship type of situation and it seems it has not went there.

But regardless what each person may say they are looking for just because another may have those quality's within them does not mean that the chemistry will be there and they will in fact see that person as one they want to be more then just a friend.

Now if you have actually been intimate with this person and the only time they come around it seems is when they want something. Then I must say that is all they want.

And if it is someone you have been talking to online only and nothing has developed at this point then most likely they only see you as a friend only.

You see regardless if we feel that everything that person is seeking we in fact have those qualities. That is still not enough to base a relationship on. If the chemistry is not there it will not be anything more then a friendship.

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Sun 03/15/09 11:52 AM


WHY IN THE WORLD WHEN MEN SAY THAT THEY WANT A "REAL WOMAN"? THEY RUN FOR THE HILLS WHEN THEY SEE HER COMING. I AM SO TRIED OF THAT.


Just because a woman sees herself as being 'real', it doesn't necessarily and automatically mean that the man she desires is going to be interested in and attracted to her, based solely on that fact.

There's a lot more involved in relationships than that.
and I would like to add here Your idea of what a real woman is and theirs may be totally different.

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Sun 03/15/09 08:52 PM

WHY IN THE WORLD WHEN MEN SAY THAT THEY WANT A "REAL WOMAN"? THEY RUN FOR THE HILLS WHEN THEY SEE HER COMING. I AM SO TRIED OF THAT.


"They" (supposed experts) say it's all about the chase for the man...maybe 'they' are right???

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Sun 03/15/09 08:57 PM
Nein.

I hate the "chase".

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