Topic: Men, just a suggestion
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Fri 03/20/09 09:45 PM
2 funny!!!

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Fri 03/20/09 09:46 PM

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Fri 03/20/09 09:52 PM

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Fri 03/20/09 09:52 PM

Redshirt's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:52 PM
Edited by Redshirt on Fri 03/20/09 09:54 PM

We talk online for months, talk over the phone endlessly, we meet have a great time together. Months into this all of a sudden he's not so sure if he wants to continue because I have 2 boys. It's right there on my profile!! UGH!!!frustrated Does no one know WTF they want anymore???

Romeo make it a very tall cold one pleeease!


The site will not allow me to truly express my anger at such a person. You have every right to feel absolutely furious with that "male". On behalf of true men, my deepest apologies.




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Fri 03/20/09 09:57 PM


We talk online for months, talk over the phone endlessly, we meet have a great time together. Months into this all of a sudden he's not so sure if he wants to continue because I have 2 boys. It's right there on my profile!! UGH!!!frustrated Does no one know WTF they want anymore???

Romeo make it a very tall cold one pleeease!


The site will not allow me to truly express my anger at such a person. You have every right to feel absolutely furious with that "male". On behalf of true men, my deepest apologies.






Appreciate it! I'm not one to dwell on negatives for long. I vent, get it outta my system and move on. drinker

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Fri 03/20/09 09:59 PM

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Fri 03/20/09 11:09 PM

Adamal29's photo
Sat 03/21/09 01:19 AM
I have finally gotten past the whole " she has kids bit" I mean, I have a child...so that would totally be a double standard. I can understand how that could get in the way of a relationship, but in this day and age, you gotta roll with what life offers, and the fact is most women my age have one or two, so I am no longer complaining.

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 03/21/09 07:03 AM
For some reason I'm findin in my experience it's guys my age that have a problem with women that have children still in the home. Think that was a reason I dated younger men for awhile. It doesn't seem to bother them as much. shades

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:06 AM
I love kids,and I think pretty much any woman I was ever with or wanted to be with had kids.so honestly its a stupid hang up.



ReddBeans's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:08 AM
I have no prob with a guy that doesn't want to be involved with a woman that has kids. Just be honest about it from the get go. Don't have me investin time and energy into sumthing and then all of sudden tell me that u need to back off cause I've got kids. :angry:

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:09 AM
OC, stole one of ur kitty pics. Kinda how I'm feelin today. spock

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:15 AM
yes

I understand where you stand on that.and it is past wrong to get with someone,then at the last minute decide your not wanting to go any farther because of something so small as having kids,and most may think thats a big deal,but it truly isnt.


but as much as it sucks,it truly is better that you found out now,and he isnt here any more.he didnt deserve ya any ways.

his way of thinking makes him a very very small person.

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:15 AM

OC, stole one of ur kitty pics. Kinda how I'm feelin today. spock
that is fine

:wink: flowerforyou

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Sat 03/21/09 10:21 AM

yes

I understand where you stand on that.and it is past wrong to get with someone,then at the last minute decide your not wanting to go any farther because of something so small as having kids,and most may think thats a big deal,but it truly isnt.


but as much as it sucks,it truly is better that you found out now,and he isnt here any more.he didnt deserve ya any ways.

his way of thinking makes him a very very small person.


He's been givin me the "I just need time to think" speel, think he's tryin to keep me on the hook. Too bad for him I ain't no worm and much smarter than he seems to think.

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:23 AM


yes

I understand where you stand on that.and it is past wrong to get with someone,then at the last minute decide your not wanting to go any farther because of something so small as having kids,and most may think thats a big deal,but it truly isnt.


but as much as it sucks,it truly is better that you found out now,and he isnt here any more.he didnt deserve ya any ways.

his way of thinking makes him a very very small person.


He's been givin me the "I just need time to think" speel, think he's tryin to keep me on the hook. Too bad for him I ain't no worm and much smarter than he seems to think.
or else he has someone else,and he wants to see if that is gonna work,if it didnt he has his thinking that you would still be there and all would be good.

but I know your smarter than that.


but to bad for him he lost the chance with you.

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Sat 03/21/09 10:33 AM



yes

I understand where you stand on that.and it is past wrong to get with someone,then at the last minute decide your not wanting to go any farther because of something so small as having kids,and most may think thats a big deal,but it truly isnt.


but as much as it sucks,it truly is better that you found out now,and he isnt here any more.he didnt deserve ya any ways.

his way of thinking makes him a very very small person.


He's been givin me the "I just need time to think" speel, think he's tryin to keep me on the hook. Too bad for him I ain't no worm and much smarter than he seems to think.
or else he has someone else,and he wants to see if that is gonna work,if it didnt he has his thinking that you would still be there and all would be good.

but I know your smarter than that.


but to bad for him he lost the chance with you.


TY, the way I look at it, his loss. I've got alot to offer the right guy. He simply wasn't itsmokin

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/21/09 10:33 AM
:wink: there ya go


you deserve nothing but the best

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Sat 03/21/09 10:36 AM
Yeppers as do we allsmokin