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Topic: In over my head
Italy0219's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:40 PM
I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself.

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:44 PM
If it feels like you are living a lie then you are.

So what he is wealthy. If that is what is keeping you together with him then you do have some real soul searching to do...

coz1976's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:44 PM
in time respect grows to love:smile:

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Sat 03/28/09 06:45 PM

If it feels like you are living a lie then you are.

So what he is wealthy. If that is what is keeping you together with him then you do have some real soul searching to do...



drinker I agree drinker



ChangeofHeart's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:45 PM

I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself.
CAn you look at yourself in the mirror and ask the same question to yourself?

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Sat 03/28/09 06:46 PM
If there is something missing, his money will never change that.

crazysillygirl's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:46 PM
well you dont want to stay just for the money......that would be a no no

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Sat 03/28/09 06:46 PM

in time respect grows to love:smile:


Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last?

coz1976's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:47 PM


in time respect grows to love:smile:


Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last?

no,i'm saying in time respect grows to love:smile:

darkowl1's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:48 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Sat 03/28/09 06:49 PM
well, you can teach him to kiss, with gentle psycology, and get him started in gentle cardio first, then get him in the gym, with a gentle trainer, for he has the rest of his life, so there should be no hurry. he will feel better, and have more energy for everything....drinker and eventually a killer bod. that happens exponentially, as you keep working out.

Italy0219's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:48 PM

well you dont want to stay just for the money......that would be a no no



Well I am really not, but we do so many neat things that it is hard to find someone to do stuff with, alot of guys I have dated just want to sit around, this guy doesn't.

scotsman123's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:48 PM
I was involved in a similar situation some time ago - I was in your position. When I had to make a decision and end the relationship they took it as I was only interested in their money etc and that was why I stayed and no matter what I said I couldn`t convince them otherwise. I feel that if you don`t care for that other person you are not only stopping your own chance of happiness but spoiling theirs to. How would you feel if the position was reversed?

Italy0219's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:50 PM

well, you can teach him to kiss, with gentle psycology, and get him started in gentle cardio first, then get him in the gym, with a gentle trainer, for he has the rest of his life, so there should be no hurry. he will feel better, and have more energy for everything....drinker



How can you teach someone to kiss the way you want, I really did not think that was truly possible, and he says he likes himself the way he is..i have tried to lovingly coax him to get more active.

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Sat 03/28/09 06:51 PM
marry him

and in three or four years get a divorce and take half

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Sat 03/28/09 06:51 PM
Just be honest.



















Tell him you'll marry him if he buys you a hot boyfriend

Italy0219's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:52 PM
We have broken it off before and he asks to come back into my life and somehow we get back together cause I miss the fun stuff we do and miss his funny ways, etc. But i feel i don't love him.

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Sat 03/28/09 06:53 PM



in time respect grows to love:smile:


Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last?

no,i'm saying in time respect grows to love:smile:



I don't see that noway

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:53 PM

I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself.
flowerforyou stay stay stay stay or you will end up with a guy that turns you off but is also BROKEflowerforyou

Italy0219's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:53 PM

marry him

and in three or four years get a divorce and take half


He is recently divorced, (couple years,) the first wife did that too him and I just could not do it again, don't have that in me. He was married 17 years to her!!

coz1976's photo
Sat 03/28/09 06:54 PM




in time respect grows to love:smile:


Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last?

no,i'm saying in time respect grows to love:smile:



I don't see that noway

i've seen it:smile:

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