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Topic: Aggressive Women
ashinaustin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 660	Tue 03/31/09 08:25 PM
Ok... let's be honest guys. How do you respond to aggressive women? Do you prefer the typical gender roles or would you like for women to be more assertive when it comes to approaching you? I am pretty assertive when I like a guy and have no problem asking them out. How do men feel about this? Would you prefer her to make the first move or do you want to handle that?

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 03/31/09 08:27 PM Edited by Jess642 on Tue 03/31/09 08:27 PM
Assertive is not aggressive.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Tue 03/31/09 08:29 PM
I have no problem with "aggressive" women. In fact, I'm a total buffoon when it comes to trying to ask the wimmins out, so her coming up and asking ME out kinda helps. Not only that, but it also shows me that she's got some interest going as well- I never can seem to "read" when a woman is interested or not, and the aggressive types kinda take the guesswork out of all that stuff.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Tue 03/31/09 08:30 PM
Ok... let's be honest guys. How do you respond to aggressive women? Do you prefer the typical gender roles or would you like for women to be more assertive when it comes to approaching you? I am pretty assertive when I like a guy and have no problem asking them out. How do men feel about this? Would you prefer her to make the first move or do you want to handle that? there is nothing wrong with a woman being aggressive and taking the lead. Sometimes its refreshing.

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Tue 03/31/09 08:31 PM
If you feel the guy is moving to slow, then as him out. Woman really make the choice. Some guys just dont pick up the signals.

Dro_In_Indio Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 924	Tue 03/31/09 08:31 PM
Assertive is not aggressive. I'm not really sure how to define Aggressive, but the way you describe being assertive, speaking only for me, I love that. I can be a little blind sometimes, and I love when a woman tells me exactly what is on her mind.

ashinaustin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 660	Tue 03/31/09 08:31 PM
Assertive is not aggressive. According to this, they are synonyms. Related forms: ag⋅gres⋅sive⋅ly, adverb ag⋅gres⋅sive⋅ness, ag⋅gres⋅siv⋅i⋅ty /ˌægrɛˈsɪvɪti/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [ag-re-siv-i-tee] Show IPA , noun Synonyms: 1. pugnacious, militant. 2. forceful, enterprising, assertive. There are many different ways to use it though.

ashinaustin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 660	Tue 03/31/09 08:33 PM
Great answers! I didn't know if it scared guys off or if they were open to it. Sometimes we all just need a little tap in the right direction!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 03/31/09 08:36 PM
Assertive...stating comfortably what it is that I want. Aggressive...taking what I want, and taking no prisoners. is how I see it. I am assertive, it shows even in my typing. I am not aggressive... I bite, but only when begged to.

Dro_In_Indio Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 924	Tue 03/31/09 08:36 PM
Trust me and I probably speak for a lot of guys... With a smile like that... If you asked me out, the answer PROBABLY wouldn't be no

Dro_In_Indio Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 924	Tue 03/31/09 08:36 PM
I am not aggressive... I bite, but only when begged to. Seriously.... They'd have to BEG???

ashinaustin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 660	Tue 03/31/09 08:38 PM
Trust me and I probably speak for a lot of guys... With a smile like that... If you asked me out, the answer PROBABLY wouldn't be no Aw, too sweet, thank you

LadyMartha Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 626	Tue 03/31/09 08:38 PM
i'm aggressive in the bedroom joking

ashinaustin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 660	Tue 03/31/09 08:40 PM
Assertive...stating comfortably what it is that I want. Aggressive...taking what I want, and taking no prisoners. is how I see it. I am assertive, it shows even in my typing. I am not aggressive... I bite, but only when begged to. Ok, I see what you mean. Going by your definition, I definitely mean assertive. Like I said, lots of different ways to take it

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 03/31/09 08:42 PM
I am not aggressive... I bite, but only when begged to. Seriously.... They'd have to BEG??? Yes... I love prolonging the anticipated misery.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Tue 03/31/09 08:43 PM
With open arms

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 03/31/09 08:49 PM
Ok... let's be honest guys. How do you respond to aggressive women? Do you prefer the typical gender roles or would you like for women to be more assertive when it comes to approaching you? I am pretty assertive when I like a guy and have no problem asking them out. How do men feel about this? Would you prefer her to make the first move or do you want to handle that? Hell! where have you been all my life Jk to be honest here and i think a lot men on datting site would love if more women were like you. To me i find that some women that are assertive tend to hold a better conversation and not afraid to speack there mind. Women these days need to learn how to open up more and have more of an open mind. Now when i say that. Some might say, well i do. But actions speak louder then words.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 03/31/09 08:53 PM
Ok... let's be honest guys. How do you respond to aggressive women? Do you prefer the typical gender roles or would you like for women to be more assertive when it comes to approaching you? I am pretty assertive when I like a guy and have no problem asking them out. How do men feel about this? Would you prefer her to make the first move or do you want to handle that? Hell! where have you been all my life Jk to be honest here and i think a lot men on datting site would love if more women were like you. To me i find that some women that are assertive tend to hold a better conversation and not afraid to speack there mind. Women these days need to learn how to open up more and have more of an open mind. Now when i say that. Some might say, well i do. But actions speak louder then words. SO you need more action Shads?

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 03/31/09 08:56 PM
Ok... let's be honest guys. How do you respond to aggressive women? Do you prefer the typical gender roles or would you like for women to be more assertive when it comes to approaching you? I am pretty assertive when I like a guy and have no problem asking them out. How do men feel about this? Would you prefer her to make the first move or do you want to handle that? Hell! where have you been all my life Jk to be honest here and i think a lot men on datting site would love if more women were like you. To me i find that some women that are assertive tend to hold a better conversation and not afraid to speack there mind. Women these days need to learn how to open up more and have more of an open mind. Now when i say that. Some might say, well i do. But actions speak louder then words. SO you need more action Shads? Hell Yeah i'm not an easy man to please

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 03/31/09 08:59 PM
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