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Topic: help me....
4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 09:37 PM
So guys tell me this....why do pursue a woman hard, then once you get her attention poof your interest is dead? I get the whole thrill of the chase, but come on what gives.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 04/03/09 09:38 PM
I usually only chase a woman until I get my money back.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 09:39 PM
ok thats not helping

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 04/03/09 09:40 PM
So guys tell me this....why do pursue a woman hard, then once you get her attention poof your interest is dead? I get the whole thrill of the chase, but come on what gives. Its hard to describe. More like a compulsion.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 04/03/09 09:40 PM
I usually only chase a woman until I get my money back.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 09:41 PM
well iam sick of that game, myself

elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Fri 04/03/09 09:54 PM
In my life, I have only given up after the pursuit one time. She had an addiction that she hid too well, and I wasn't going to deal with a drug user. Other guys, I cannot speak for, but I do know that it can be a game for some of them. If this has happened to you causing you to post this question, I have been there too.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 09:55 PM
thanks for the sincere reply....appreciate it

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 09:56 PM
so now tell me how to play the "GAME"?

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:04 PM
Oh give me a break. They got to know you and found something that was a dealbreaker and lost interest. Could be smoking, drugs, alcohol, alergic to cathair, your personality or lack thereof, or your constant generalization of men. I don't know. I wasn't there. Could have been anything. Its not a game. Its reality. Maybe your cologne comes on too strong. That's what I tell guys when they ask this question.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:07 PM
Best bet? Kidnap the guy who lost interest and ask HIM why at gunpoint.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:09 PM
I mean that's what women do to me.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Fri 04/03/09 10:09 PM
sorry, i dont play games. i pursue women because im interested in them

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:12 PM
Guys usually lose interest when they sober up and chew their arm off so they don't have to wake up 2 bagger in their escape.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Fri 04/03/09 10:12 PM
Same here. If I'm gonna pursue a woman, I'm gonna go all the way. I don't pull that half-ass stuff, as that's just not cool.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 10:16 PM
ok got to defend myself here....um i am not boring, i do not generalize men, or hate them. cologne huh...told i smell great. maybe just maybe i am too much. iam not all weak, and dependent. who knows, guess its there loss...

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:20 PM
Lemme take a wild guess though. You're 5'9"- BANG! Intimidating. You're a therapist- BANG! Again intimidating. And last seperated and divorce not final-BANG! There's the dealbreaker. Men run from seperated women. You're welcome.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:24 PM
That will be a sandwich at the subway at the pilot out on I90 there at sioux falls. I charge 55 an hour for therapy sessions. 5 minutes- 5 bucks.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 04/03/09 10:27 PM
But men appreciate a woman with strong personality. As long as its not overpowering.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Fri 04/03/09 10:28 PM
I usually only chase a woman until I get my money back.