my ex cheated on me and she also did it with my best friend while i was in the other room asleep she blew him and not care, she said at that time she didnt care after she just saw me like not even 30 seconds ago she blame it on being drunk a stupid she also says she sorry and told me she would never do it again it was a bad judgement.
We have been together 5 years with a 4 year old kid what should i do needing help and advive

Why on earth would you WANT to be with someone like that?

She not only doesn't respect you, commitment, or her child, be she doesn't respect herself!

Cheaters cheat because they are selfish and narcissistic. It has nothing to do with being drunk, bad judgement, or YOU.

She is unhappy with herself. Why else would she get drunk and blow someone else -- or put herself in that situation?

I wish they gave a license to people before they have kids. What a way for a mother to conduct herself.

To me the answer is obvious. Leave.

If you want drama and to have a neverending rollercoaster of a life then stay.

Punch her in the mouth

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but.....once a cheater always a cheater. Alcohol is not an excuse, it is a crutch. You are young enough to find someone that will treat you AND your child right. Good luck-it isn't going to be easy. I wish you the best.

I only had to read what the topic of the thread was to know the answer.

Wait a minute. You said, "my ex cheated on me...". So either you already told her to hit the road or she was your ex before she blew this other guy- in which case it's none of your business anyway.

Gotta go man..the child dont need the fights..Yea you might not have'em soon but eventually when you keep biting your tounge and holding back...You will probably blow the fukk up and it wont be good for you or any one else...Move on their is plenty of girls that like single father's if not...You still have your child for 18yrs

Nothing to add that hasn't been said, come on, you know what to do.

Not only would I leave but also get a different friend.

YES!! I overlooked that point as well.

Your friend is a total douche if he went along with her! Don't just blame her!

maybe she just wants better sentence structure in her life be seeing you

just leave her after my ex cheated on me i forgave her and stayed, then a month later i found out she had been doing it again so i left for good alot less stress now

& then tea - bag her