Topic: In romance
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Sun 04/05/09 04:25 PM
Do you take as much pleasure in pleasing your partner as they do you?

Or do you prefer to be pleased by them more?

In ALL WAYS, not just through sex??

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:27 PM
I'm in it to win itbigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:28 PM

Do you take as much pleasure in pleasing your partner as they do you?

Or do you prefer to be pleased by them more?

In ALL WAYS, not just through sex??
flowerforyou The relationship is only as good as the woman is happyflowerforyou

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Sun 04/05/09 04:29 PM
it is 50/50

has to be

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:30 PM


Do you take as much pleasure in pleasing your partner as they do you?

Or do you prefer to be pleased by them more?

In ALL WAYS, not just through sex??
flowerforyou The relationship is only as good as the woman is happyflowerforyou




You ain't lyinglaugh laugh

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:31 PM
I give with all that I am and expect the same.flowerforyou

ChangeofHeart's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:34 PM

Do you take as much pleasure in pleasing your partner as they do you?

Or do you prefer to be pleased by them more?

In ALL WAYS, not just through sex??
Anything i do other than put it in, is so i can put it innoway drinker

Dan99's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:38 PM
I like doing stuff for her, and i like her doing stuff for me.

It is what it is all about really.

TBRich's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:38 PM
I have no idea what to do in a relationship

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Sun 04/05/09 04:40 PM
what you put into a relationship is what you should get out of it...
doesn't always work that way though...


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Sun 04/05/09 04:42 PM

what you put into a relationship is what you should get out of it...
doesn't always work that way though...


flowerforyou Amen,,,and you are so right on the not always,wink,flowerforyou :heart:

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:42 PM
I give of myself completely, and don't know how to be any other way.

Receiving the same is great, but the reality is that couples usually go in cycles. You give, he takes. He gives, you take. As long as you both KEEP giving, the taking is fine!bigsmile

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:45 PM
Edited by Puffins1958 on Sun 04/05/09 04:46 PM
It gives me great pleasure knowing that he is completely content in our relationship. Whoever HE might be.



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Sun 04/05/09 04:49 PM

it is 50/50

has to be


hard to find, but true

Jimmy59's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:56 PM
Pleasure is commonly conceptualized as a positive experience, happiness, entertainment, enjoyment, ecstasy, and euphoria. However, it is a difficult concept to define as the experience of pleasure differs from individual to individual.
flowerforyou smokin smokin smokin

justaguy1821's photo
Sun 04/05/09 04:56 PM
You cant just give 50/50 If you do that then you are measuring. Then you start saying. "Where is my 50%?" You have to give 100% all the time. If both people in a relationship will do this only then will you find total old movie happieness

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Sun 04/05/09 08:30 PM

Pleasure is commonly conceptualized as a positive experience, happiness, entertainment, enjoyment, ecstasy, and euphoria. However, it is a difficult concept to define as the experience of pleasure differs from individual to individual.
flowerforyou smokin smokin smokin
No more than their hearts differ to.drinker

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Sun 04/05/09 08:35 PM
I enjoy giving and receiving. :)

imsingle951's photo
Mon 04/06/09 06:24 AM

It gives me great pleasure knowing that he is completely content in our relationship. Whoever HE might be.



im the same way

cityblues21's photo
Mon 04/06/09 06:50 AM
I cannot measure.. I just do. If there is expectation of a return, it is pretty much not being done from the heart. I think that if I am able to please my significant other, in all ways, my pleasure from doing so is reward enough. Of course the person I bestow my affection and gestures on will be deserving of such, and the natural give and take of a relationship will balance everything out in the long term. No need to keep score.