Topic: Sparks-- wait or no
SimplyElla's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:50 PM
Edited by SimplyElla on Thu 04/09/09 12:55 PM
You went on a date with a super m/f.. everything rocked... well except for that spark and undenying chemistry.. do you end it right then and there or continue to another date or more and see if it pops its head in?


tanyaann's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:52 PM
I don't know. I think that it is personal choice. I have had 'sparks' before that that fizzled out really quick. At the very least, spend more time with the person and develop a friendship and go from there!

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:54 PM
I went on two dates with this girl, I didn't feel any sparks the first time so I figured give it another try & see what happens..well the second date turned into spending the weekend at her placedevil

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:54 PM

You went on a date with a supier m/f.. everything rocked... well except for that spark and undenying chemistry.. do you end it right then and there or continue to another date or more and see if it pops its head in?


bigsmileWho needs sparks and chemistry?:tongue:

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:54 PM
Keep going

Sometimes it does take awhile

I always give it a little time


SimplyElla's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:56 PM
Just wondering what everyone's thoughts where... Some people are quick to just cast one aside for the littlest of things and some are willing to see forth to the bigger picture and give chances... :smile:

grneyedldy1967's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:59 PM
If he was a really nice guy I'd definitely give him a second chance.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 04/09/09 12:59 PM

Just wondering what everyone's thoughts where... Some people are quick to just cast one aside for the littlest of things and some are willing to see forth to the bigger picture and give chances... :smile:
happy Its all very subjectivehappy

MrHerrNudist's photo
Thu 04/09/09 01:00 PM

You went on a date with a super m/f.. everything rocked... well except for that spark and undenying chemistry.. do you end it right then and there or continue to another date or more and see if it pops its head in?

I say if at first there is no spark, keep rubbing sticks and see what develops!


MmmmHmmm's photo
Thu 04/09/09 01:03 PM
why not try for a second date? if nothing else, you have an amazing time and continue to hang out as friends.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 04/09/09 01:04 PM

why not try for a second date? if nothing else, you have an amazing time and continue to hang out as friends.
:thumbsup: thats right:thumbsup:

no photo
Thu 04/09/09 01:08 PM
I would suggest we stay only as friends.

Just have to be honest about it.

It is either there or it isn't.


SitkaRains's photo
Thu 04/09/09 02:07 PM

You went on a date with a super m/f.. everything rocked... well except for that spark and undenying chemistry.. do you end it right then and there or continue to another date or more and see if it pops its head in?




I personally don't really want all the fireworks on the first date. I would much prefer to build a slow burning fire that isn't going to go out no matter how much rains comes our way. So I definately would go out with them again.

no photo
Thu 04/09/09 02:44 PM
Edited by heartSoul on Thu 04/09/09 02:44 PM
sparks can start fires...
it ain't all it's cracked up to betongue2

taking it slow works best for me, then we can work towards the passion