Topic: VERBAL COMPARE TO NOT VERBAL SHY GUYS
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Thu 04/09/09 11:56 PM
IT SO MUCH BETTER TO DATE A GUY WHO IN TOUCH WHO HE IS , THEN A SHY GUY , MOST SHY GUYS INSECURE WHO THEY ARE , IS ALL ABOAT BALANCE IN A RELATIONSHIP ITS GOT TO BE EQUAL LIKE THE SUGAR !!smooched

MarcasoCyanide's photo
Thu 04/09/09 11:59 PM
It really depends on the guy I think...
I myself am a timid and shy person but I'm not insecure with myself. I just have a weird social awkwardness about me. Within time that shyness goes away and I'm able to full express myself in the ways I normally do.

I think shy guys are a chance you have to take sometimes. Sometimes you get lucky and find a guy who warms up to you and you can see who he really is, other times you find a guy who stays insecure with himself and in the end results in a bad relationship because he just won't open up.

But don't count us shy people out!
:D

eileena9's photo
Fri 04/10/09 12:08 AM
Nothing wrong with shy guys......or shy gals, if that is who you are looking for.

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Fri 04/10/09 12:08 AM
Please pass the margueritas!!!:wink: drinker laugh

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Fri 04/10/09 12:08 AM
slaphead I could have had a V-8!!!slaphead

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Fri 04/10/09 12:09 AM
Edited by Jtevans on Fri 04/10/09 12:10 AM
If you want a guy that'll cheat on you,fine go for the confident guy.if you don't want him to cheat,i would go for the shy guy if i were you women

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Fri 04/10/09 12:10 AM
Not all non-talkative fellas are "shy" many are just introverted, while others just don't feel the need to have to be chatty all the time. And they have nothing to do with shyness in the least.

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Fri 04/10/09 12:10 AM
I only want a V-8 in my car!!!!!bigsmile bigsmile

MarcasoCyanide's photo
Fri 04/10/09 12:15 AM

Not all non-talkative fellas are "shy" many are just introverted, while others just don't feel the need to have to be chatty all the time. And they have nothing to do with shyness in the least.



Very true indeed!
You just gotta be able to pick the winners from the losers.
I myself am a lot less shy then I used to be..
I'm a guy of little words
I like to find other ways to express my emotions
or feelings...
Talking just never was somethign I was good at..
I fail at conversations lol

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Fri 04/10/09 12:22 AM
I feel like it's more important to say something worthwhile than to chat up some meaningless banter.

My grandpa used to tell me," Keep your mouth shut and have everyone think you're an idiot. Open it and remove all doubt."

eileena9's photo
Fri 04/10/09 12:26 AM

I feel like it's more important to say something worthwhile than to chat up some meaningless banter.

My grandpa used to tell me," Keep your mouth shut and have everyone think you're an idiot. Open it and remove all doubt."


Smart Grandpa!!flowerforyou

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Fri 04/10/09 06:07 AM
Just from my experience....

being shy may be sweet but, it gets you no where fast.

If you wanna be overlooked...be shy.

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Fri 04/10/09 06:17 AM
Some men are just under spoken. Its not necessarily that they are shy, they just dont talk a whole lot or they are not verbally inclined. Thats much more common in men then it is in women. I tend to give people a chance regardless of how talkative they are until they give me a clear cut reason to dislike them.

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Fri 04/10/09 06:18 AM

IT SO MUCH BETTER TO DATE A GUY WHO IN TOUCH WHO HE IS , THEN A SHY GUY , MOST SHY GUYS INSECURE WHO THEY ARE , IS ALL ABOAT BALANCE IN A RELATIONSHIP ITS GOT TO BE EQUAL LIKE THE SUGAR !!smooched
:smile: i am in touch with who i am and i know i don't like being yelled at be seeing you