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Topic: Would it be a bad idea for me...
Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:49 AM
...to let women know that I'm actually shy? I'm confident, but I tend to have a shyness when it comes to certain women...and that being the ones I wish I could get up enough Gulp to ask out or start a conversation with. So, on here, would it be bad to let them know that I'm really the shy type?

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:51 AM

...to let women know that I'm actually shy? I'm confident, but I tend to have a shyness when it comes to certain women...and that being the ones I wish I could get up enough Gulp to ask out or start a conversation with. So, on here, would it be bad to let them know that I'm really the shy type?


there's no reason to be shy on here. it's easy to feign confidence when people can't actually read it in your body language if it's false.


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longhairbiker's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:51 AM
Bwa ha ha ha ha!!! You're shy?

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:51 AM

Bwa ha ha ha ha!!! You're shy?


I was gonna say the same spock

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:52 AM


...to let women know that I'm actually shy? I'm confident, but I tend to have a shyness when it comes to certain women...and that being the ones I wish I could get up enough Gulp to ask out or start a conversation with. So, on here, would it be bad to let them know that I'm really the shy type?


there's no reason to be shy on here. it's easy to feign confidence when people can't actually read it in your body language if it's false.


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No, I'm quite confident. Just for some reason, certain women get me and it's hard for me to start a conversation with them.

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:53 AM
I think there's no reason to be shy anyway. And... when you tell a woman you're shy, what are you trying to accomplish? So now it's our job to bring you out of your shell? I fail to see how that tactic is going to be successful for you. Just be yourself. If more people did that, life would be a tad bit easier. Every lil tad bit helps.

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:53 AM
what the heck do you have to be shy about?
don't answer that. i understand that everybody has insecurities. but there are people who have much less to be secure about.



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Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:53 AM

Bwa ha ha ha ha!!! You're shy?
Yep. Around a certain type of women.

no photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:54 AM
Im shy too!!!surprised

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:57 AM
It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it.

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/15/09 01:58 AM

It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it.
Recoginze it, deal with it, and overcome it.

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:01 AM

It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it.

for me it comes from trying to come up with something clever. i've found that if i can't read their profile and find something there to talk about then i don't bother. i probably don't have anything in common with them in that case.



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Jill298's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:03 AM


It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it.

for me it comes from trying to come up with something clever. i've found that if i can't read their profile and find something there to talk about then i don't bother. i probably don't have anything in common with them in that case.



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That's not always true you know. Alot of times we dont put stuff in our profile because all to often others don't take the time to even read them.

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:05 AM
With me, it's the fact that I like women between 31-34 alot. I dunno, that seems to always be there age, and I have no idea what older women think of me making a pass at them.

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:06 AM

With me, it's the fact that I like women between 31-34 alot. I dunno, that seems to always be there age, and I have no idea what older women think of me making a pass at them.
IDK... I'm 31 and you never seemed to like me anyway :wink:

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:06 AM



It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it.

for me it comes from trying to come up with something clever. i've found that if i can't read their profile and find something there to talk about then i don't bother. i probably don't have anything in common with them in that case.



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That's not always true you know. Alot of times we dont put stuff in our profile because all to often others don't take the time to even read them.

i know, but without something there for me to relate to, how am i supposed to know that we have stuff in common?


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no photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:07 AM
Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!!:wink: laugh

Some of us poop rosebuds though!!!noway :wink: laugh

Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:07 AM
But, the shyness is only at breaking the ice. Starting the conversation. And, I find this hard to do offline, until I have actually received that heads up!

74Drew's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:07 AM

Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!!:wink: laugh

Some of us poop rosebuds though!!!noway :wink: laugh

i don't. i admit it.


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Engraven_Image's photo
Wed 04/15/09 02:08 AM


With me, it's the fact that I like women between 31-34 alot. I dunno, that seems to always be there age, and I have no idea what older women think of me making a pass at them.
IDK... I'm 31 and you never seemed to like me anyway :wink:
Oh shush, you're cool!

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