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Topic: Would it be a bad idea for me...
Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/15/09 02:08 AM
It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it. for me it comes from trying to come up with something clever. i've found that if i can't read their profile and find something there to talk about then i don't bother. i probably don't have anything in common with them in that case. . . . That's not always true you know. Alot of times we dont put stuff in our profile because all to often others don't take the time to even read them. i know, but without something there for me to relate to, how am i supposed to know that we have stuff in common? . . . You ask. Say hello. Say something clever yourself... and see what you get back in return.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/15/09 02:09 AM
Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!! Some of us poop rosebuds though!!! do fart blossoms count?

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 04/15/09 02:09 AM
But, the shyness is only at breaking the ice. Starting the conversation. And, I find this hard to do offline, until I have actually received that heads up! me too. you need to get a list of conversation starters. topics unrelated to trying to pick someone up. . . .

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Wed 04/15/09 02:10 AM
Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!! Some of us poop rosebuds though!!! Trust me, I seen a woman, and I swore she sh!t gummy bears and jolly ranchers! She had more than just a sweet ass!!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 04/15/09 02:10 AM
Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!! Some of us poop rosebuds though!!! do fart blossoms count? I love a good fart blossom but I havent done it since 1979!!!

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 04/15/09 02:10 AM
It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it. for me it comes from trying to come up with something clever. i've found that if i can't read their profile and find something there to talk about then i don't bother. i probably don't have anything in common with them in that case. . . . That's not always true you know. Alot of times we dont put stuff in our profile because all to often others don't take the time to even read them. i know, but without something there for me to relate to, how am i supposed to know that we have stuff in common? . . . You ask. Say hello. Say something clever yourself... and see what you get back in return. i can't start with something clever. i'm good at the snide remark and sarcasm, but only after the conversation is up and running. . . .

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Wed 04/15/09 02:11 AM
But, the shyness is only at breaking the ice. Starting the conversation. And, I find this hard to do offline, until I have actually received that heads up! me too. you need to get a list of conversation starters. topics unrelated to trying to pick someone up. . . . Thing is, that isn't the problem.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/15/09 02:11 AM
Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!! Some of us poop rosebuds though!!! do fart blossoms count? I love a good fart blossom but I havent done it since 1979!!!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/15/09 02:11 AM
It's f@cked up because I used to not be at all, but around certain women, I find myself to be shy. So I had to ask some advice on it. for me it comes from trying to come up with something clever. i've found that if i can't read their profile and find something there to talk about then i don't bother. i probably don't have anything in common with them in that case. . . . That's not always true you know. Alot of times we dont put stuff in our profile because all to often others don't take the time to even read them. i know, but without something there for me to relate to, how am i supposed to know that we have stuff in common? . . . You ask. Say hello. Say something clever yourself... and see what you get back in return. i can't start with something clever. i'm good at the snide remark and sarcasm, but only after the conversation is up and running. . . . oh? and how's that tactic been workin out for you?

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 04/15/09 02:13 AM
Its called being Intimidated.........just breaaaaaaaaaaaaaathe. We all eat and poop!!! Some of us poop rosebuds though!!! Trust me, I seen a woman, and I swore she sh!t gummy bears and jolly ranchers! She had more than just a sweet ass!!! yeah, but she was probably like a sweet//tart: sweet on the outside and sour in the middle. maybe you get too intimidated by their looks. the hot ones are people too. and i've been told that they actually get hit on less because too many guys are intimidated to talk to them. some of them are supposedly very lonely. . . .

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 04/15/09 02:14 AM
i can't start with something clever. i'm good at the snide remark and sarcasm, but only after the conversation is up and running. . . . oh? and how's that tactic been workin out for you? nothing works for me. i don't flirt or talk to women in real life. . . .

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Wed 04/15/09 02:14 AM
Thanks you all, I need to hit the bed.

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 04/15/09 02:15 AM
good luck. . . .

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/15/09 02:17 AM
i can't start with something clever. i'm good at the snide remark and sarcasm, but only after the conversation is up and running. . . . oh? and how's that tactic been workin out for you? nothing works for me. i don't flirt or talk to women in real life. . . . is it because you choose not to? or is it because something inside you prevents you from trying?

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 04/15/09 02:26 AM
i can't start with something clever. i'm good at the snide remark and sarcasm, but only after the conversation is up and running. . . . oh? and how's that tactic been workin out for you? nothing works for me. i don't flirt or talk to women in real life. . . . is it because you choose not to? or is it because something inside you prevents you from trying? what the OP seems to be experiencing online is what i experience both online and off. inability to strike up conversation. . . .

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 04/15/09 04:23 AM
...to let women know that I'm actually shy? I'm confident, but I tend to have a shyness when it comes to certain women...and that being the ones I wish I could get up enough Gulp to ask out or start a conversation with. So, on here, would it be bad to let them know that I'm really the shy type? i think you just did, no?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 04/15/09 04:39 AM
No if your really shy be upfront about it There's women who think shy is cute!!!!