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Topic: I need some advice
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Wed 04/15/09 07:01 PM

I was just chatting with a guy and we were getting to know each other. And he asked about my interests and what kind of man I was looking for. I said "here are my dealbreakers" ....I don't want a bad or abusive temper, don't want someone who has no job or can't hold a job, and someone who can handle my sarcastic sense of humor. Guess what???? He closed his im window w/o even say good bye, kiss my azz or anything. What did I do wrong?


His mommy probably caught him talking naughty on an adult dating site and sent him to his room without any supper. laugh

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Wed 04/15/09 07:08 PM
:smile: i have problems with women who say they don't want a man who doesn't have a job,in this economy,a lot of good men don't have jobs,it's not their fault,it's "The Systems" fault and i think some women fail to understand that be seeing you

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Wed 04/15/09 07:12 PM
tears I sorrytears My wife just shut off my 'puter in the middle of the conversation and I hit her with my keyboard and had to find a spare before I could get back online. My welfare check is already spent on beer and cigarettes so I cannot afford to buy a new one.:laughing:

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Wed 04/15/09 07:31 PM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Wed 04/15/09 07:34 PM

Nothing!!

Ya told it like it is!

F(:k. Him!


Couldn't agree more... It is always best to be honest, maybe that intimidated him, but it should have. He did you a favor.

I love it when a woman tells me what she does not like. God, that makes things so much easier because so many women DON'T DO THAT. Then they get pissed because you aren't a friggin psychic

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Wed 04/15/09 07:37 PM
Did you try and contact him again?
Could it have been a technical issue?
If I was chatting with someone, that is what I would think of first, rather than them being a jerk.
If they don't respond to email/IM, then yeah, forget about it.

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Wed 04/15/09 07:42 PM
Probably will never live up to your standards... and that"s why you have them . to weed out the "unacceptable types". I don't work .. so I couldn't meet your requirements either. But then again I am retired from work. But Just like I have standards that most people here on mingles know about. I will not waiver from them. Neither should you. His loss really.flowerforyou

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Thu 04/16/09 04:46 AM


I was just chatting with a guy and we were getting to know each other. And he asked about my interests and what kind of man I was looking for. I said "here are my dealbreakers" ....I don't want a bad or abusive temper, don't want someone who has no job or can't hold a job, and someone who can handle my sarcastic sense of humor. Guess what???? He closed his im window w/o even say good bye, kiss my azz or anything. What did I do wrong?


His mommy probably caught him talking naughty on an adult dating site and sent him to his room without any supper. laugh
laugh laugh laugh laugh ((moof)) You are so funny!!!!



And yes michiganman, I did email him and he read the messages......no response.

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