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Topic: I'm having a rough time
agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Tue 04/28/09 09:39 PM
Lies are lies. RED flag there. And 2 you will have to guess at the rest of the realtionship. You may want to look for a new date. And chalk this one up to a date only.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Tue 04/28/09 09:56 PM
Lies are lies. RED flag there. And 2 you will have to guess at the rest of the realtionship. You may want to look for a new date. And chalk this one up to a date only. Do I have a taker? LOL

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 04/28/09 10:13 PM Edited by buttons on Tue 04/28/09 10:22 PM
double post

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 04/28/09 10:16 PM
What did she lie about? First, lied about her last name Then said she didn't like sex without a relationship, but then later admitted to having an FWB lying about her last name is a red flag.... however saying she doesnt like sex without a relationship may not be .. perhaps she tried it and didnt like it or tried it and considered a fwb is a type of relationship? however there is definately one red flag...

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 04/28/09 10:25 PM Edited by buttons on Tue 04/28/09 10:25 PM
although like someone said .. it could be scarry someone wanting to know where to stalk you at by only one date.... im sorry ive never been asked my last name on one date.... maybe a week or two later or like 5 dates.... so maybe that isnt weird either lol... to me a fwb is a freindship not a relationship as a partner...

EZ4Sheezy Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 4694	Wed 04/29/09 12:35 AM
last name...big deal FWB, whatever that stands for, might be something she tried and didn't like. Maybe didn't wanna fess up right away, but at least fessed up to it. I would say two yellow flags, not red. If you like her, maybe give her a chance, but be cautious about it. Don't fall for her too quickly. 5 yard penalty, but noone has to be put on the bench.

ProteinGirl Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 400	Wed 04/29/09 04:37 AM
I remember reading your post when you were over the hill in lust with her. I am sorry that it turned out like this. A lie is a lie. They tell you what they 'are' right in the beginning. Audie, take some time for YOU sweetie, work on these 'flaws' you speak of

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 04/29/09 06:24 AM
I say only a week and everyone is giving this girl a hard time for 'lying' Within a week I probably wouldn't tell you how I really feel about sex either. And maybe things were moving to fast and she was a little scared to give a guy over the internet she's only known for a few days, her last name. JMO

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 04/29/09 06:33 AM
Don't waste your time, tell that b!tch to beat it!!

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 04/29/09 07:22 AM
kick her to the curb

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Wed 04/29/09 07:33 AM
What did she lie about? First, lied about her last name Then said she didn't like sex without a relationship, but then later admitted to having an FWB That's strange to be lying about one's last name. I can see if she didn't want to tell you yet. If that was the case, I would have just told you that I didn't want to tell you yet. That would put my radar up. It doesn't sound like the comment about sex is a lie to me. You're saying that she said that she didn't like sex without a relationship. Maybe she came to that conclusion after having a FWB. She wants sex with a relationship now.