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 You're as purdy as a Mini Buffaloe Ranch Chicken Sandwich from Jack In The Box
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Heya Ike.
You are one of the good looking lads and are very lucky for that. To most others here this would be obvious so your question is confusing. But I know how, particularly after a series of let downs or relationship blows, you can lose track of who you are and how you are perceived....I understand that feeling and I dont see your question as an indicator of lost self esteem....just lost self awareness.. Try this....go to a bar. Any nice bar nearby. Lots of handsome lads with good looking girls yeah? Now do this slowly and deliberately. Look at the guy nearest you closely. Rate him for looks. Be honest. Seen in isolation he can appear very different to how he appears in a group. Now do it with his mate. Then others. You will soon see that yoiu are in the top 10% of attractive people there. The trick is to look at people as individuals rather than a single amorphous threatening mob. When you start to see yourself how you really are on the outside..then you can start checking out inside.. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Wed 06/17/09 08:00 PM
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Heya Ike. You are one of the good looking lads and are very lucky for that. To most others here this would be obvious so your question is confusing. But I know how, particularly after a series of let downs or relationship blows, you can lose track of who you are and how you are perceived....I understand that feeling and I dont see your question as an indicator of lost self esteem....just lost self awareness.. Try this....go to a bar. Any nice bar nearby. Lots of handsome lads with good looking girls yeah? Now do this slowly and deliberately. Look at the guy nearest you closely. Rate him for looks. Be honest. Seen in isolation he can appear very different to how he appears in a group. Now do it with his mate. Then others. You will soon see that yoiu are in the top 10% of attractive people there. The trick is to look at people as individuals rather than a single amorphous threatening mob. When you start to see yourself how you really are on the outside..then you can start checking out inside.. This is certainly true..but even if someone in the l0% who scores under the average look should also look around and realize that looks has little to do with success let it be business or with women. |
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Dude, I think all you need is a booster shot of self esteem. my aunt always tells her huband that im just lony and people say what you just said to me for years |
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What? Now I am chopped liver?  Men, you want honesty, we give it, and then get ignored |
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Not ugly at all. I am not sure what "women" you have been talking to. |
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i know this is a forum board and people like to be clowns on here but i would like some honest answers. i probaly wont meet any of you so you dont need to spare my feelings, please just be honest. the picture you see in this window is recent, in fact it has the date stamped on it. i need to honestly know from you women am i ugly? i was told this by a women and i been dumped twice in the last week. so tell me what you honestly think. I don't think you're ugly either. I'm curious as to the reasons these women gave you... did they say it was because they found you to be ugly? Since you're asking for total honesty, I am also going to say that I've seen your posts in the forums and have the opinion that you come off as a bit desperate. I've not seen you that much, but when I do you've posted something along the lines of wanting to get married and wanting to find someone. I suggest you lighten up a bit on that and converse about other things so the ladies can get to know more about you other than that you want a relationship. |
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i know this is a forum board and people like to be clowns on here but i would like some honest answers. i probaly wont meet any of you so you dont need to spare my feelings, please just be honest. the picture you see in this window is recent, in fact it has the date stamped on it. i need to honestly know from you women am i ugly? i was told this by a women and i been dumped twice in the last week. so tell me what you honestly think. I don't think you're ugly either. I'm curious as to the reasons these women gave you... did they say it was because they found you to be ugly? Since you're asking for total honesty, I am also going to say that I've seen your posts in the forums and have the opinion that you come off as a bit desperate. I've not seen you that much, but when I do you've posted something along the lines of wanting to get married and wanting to find someone. I suggest you lighten up a bit on that and converse about other things so the ladies can get to know more about you other than that you want a relationship. |
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It's a very nice picture....  |
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 If I were gay I'd do you. Seriously... Self confidence is all you need, because when women sense a lack of it you become MUCH less attractive. |
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maybe it wasnt your looks...perhaps your personality and they used it for an excuse? who cares move on... its not like u were with them long if 2 of them dumped you in the same week... unless you have been dating both for some time and maybe thats why they would of dumped ya
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Heya Ike. You are one of the good looking lads and are very lucky for that. To most others here this would be obvious so your question is confusing. But I know how, particularly after a series of let downs or relationship blows, you can lose track of who you are and how you are perceived....I understand that feeling and I dont see your question as an indicator of lost self esteem....just lost self awareness.. Try this....go to a bar. Any nice bar nearby. Lots of handsome lads with good looking girls yeah? Now do this slowly and deliberately. Look at the guy nearest you closely. Rate him for looks. Be honest. Seen in isolation he can appear very different to how he appears in a group. Now do it with his mate. Then others. You will soon see that yoiu are in the top 10% of attractive people there. The trick is to look at people as individuals rather than a single amorphous threatening mob. When you start to see yourself how you really are on the outside..then you can start checking out inside..thanks everyone i realy need this This is certainly true..but even if someone in the l0% who scores under the average look should also look around and realize that looks has little to do with success let it be business or with women. |
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maybe it wasnt your looks...perhaps your personality and they used it for an excuse? who cares move on... its not like u were with them long if 2 of them dumped you in the same week... unless you have been dating both for some time and maybe thats why they would of dumped ya |
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Well I think you are quite handsome and it is their loss for sure! They are seriously missing out! Keep looking good!
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Well I think you are quite handsome and it is their loss for sure! They are seriously missing out! Keep looking good! |
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Like someone else said, their loss. You're not ugly, you have some good pics, and you seem like a very nice person, UNLIKE the one that had the gall to say such a shallow and hurtful thing to you. Also, looks are nice, but not what really matters in the long run, and...they fade, as the saying goes.
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Like someone else said, their loss. You're not ugly, you have some good pics, and you seem like a very nice person, UNLIKE the one that had the gall to say such a shallow and hurtful thing to you. Also, looks are nice, but not what really matters in the long run, and...they fade, as the saying goes. |
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just hang in there till you turn 63, then all the 20yr olds will be hitting you up
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Like someone else said, their loss. You're not ugly, you have some good pics, and you seem like a very nice person, UNLIKE the one that had the gall to say such a shallow and hurtful thing to you. Also, looks are nice, but not what really matters in the long run, and...they fade, as the saying goes. <<<virtual hugs to you>>> |
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just hang in there till you turn 63, then all the 20yr olds will be hitting you up  U been frisked for rocks???
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