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Topic: The Ex
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Wed 06/24/09 04:34 PM
Is it a normal feeling to be insecure/jealous of your significant other's ex?? Is this something that most people get uncomfortable about if they know their bf/gf converses with them in anyway if they dont "have to" spock spock

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Wed 06/24/09 04:38 PM
Don't let the green monster consume you. drinker

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Wed 06/24/09 04:38 PM

Don't let the green monster consume you. drinker

Green Monster? laugh

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Wed 06/24/09 04:39 PM
mad They catch a beating if they get involved in my relationshipmad

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Wed 06/24/09 04:40 PM
not sure if it's normal or abnormal. sometimes it happens. but like deluxe said don't let it overcome you. Personally I believe there are no good or bad emotions...it's the actions you take that are good or bad. I would take to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I;m feeling

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Wed 06/24/09 04:41 PM

mad They catch a beating if they get involved in my relationshipmad

indifferent

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Wed 06/24/09 04:42 PM

not sure if it's normal or abnormal. sometimes it happens. but like deluxe said don't let it overcome you. Personally I believe there are no good or bad emotions...it's the actions you take that are good or bad. I would take to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I;m feeling

flowerforyou

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Wed 06/24/09 04:42 PM


Don't let the green monster consume you. drinker

Green Monster? laugh


Jealousy sick

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Wed 06/24/09 04:42 PM

not sure if it's normal or abnormal. sometimes it happens. but like deluxe said don't let it overcome you. Personally I believe there are no good or bad emotions...it's the actions you take that are good or bad. I would take to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I;m feeling
hello yellowrose:wink:

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Wed 06/24/09 04:44 PM


not sure if it's normal or abnormal. sometimes it happens. but like deluxe said don't let it overcome you. Personally I believe there are no good or bad emotions...it's the actions you take that are good or bad. I would take to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I;m feeling
hello yellowrose:wink:


well hey sunshineflowerforyou

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Wed 06/24/09 04:56 PM

not sure if it's normal or abnormal. sometimes it happens. but like deluxe said don't let it overcome you. Personally I believe there are no good or bad emotions...it's the actions you take that are good or bad. I would take to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I;m feeling


I agree. We have feelings and sometimes they aren't the ones we just love about ourselves, but they are just that!! Normal feelings!! Everyone feels insecure at some time and can't help but wonder if they measure up to the good stuff the ex had. It is about how we behave with those feelings. We can't help our feelings, but have to step back and choose how to deal with them.

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Wed 06/24/09 05:02 PM

Is it a normal feeling to be insecure/jealous of your significant other's ex?? Is this something that most people get uncomfortable about if they know their bf/gf converses with them in anyway if they dont "have to" spock spock


I was totally cool with the ex until I found my husband in bed with her.

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Wed 06/24/09 05:03 PM


not sure if it's normal or abnormal. sometimes it happens. but like deluxe said don't let it overcome you. Personally I believe there are no good or bad emotions...it's the actions you take that are good or bad. I would take to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I;m feeling


I agree. We have feelings and sometimes they aren't the ones we just love about ourselves, but they are just that!! Normal feelings!! Everyone feels insecure at some time and can't help but wonder if they measure up to the good stuff the ex had. It is about how we behave with those feelings. We can't help our feelings, but have to step back and choose how to deal with them.

Good pointflowerforyou
It has been getting on my nerves cuz i don't speak to my ex but if he is on good terms with his i can't flip out. They only speak every couple of months on the computer to say hi and see how they are doing. I guess i have no right to change that. I gotta just him.

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Wed 06/24/09 05:32 PM
next time he gets on the computer to talk to her get naked and lay on the couch drinker drinker

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Wed 06/24/09 05:48 PM

next time he gets on the computer to talk to her get naked and lay on the couch drinker drinker


i'm never around, it's once in a blue moon:tongue:

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Wed 06/24/09 06:02 PM
Is it a normal feeling to be insecure/jealous of your significant other's ex?


not if he/she knows you can kick his/her arse and won't mind doing it

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Thu 06/25/09 05:15 AM
explode ohwell

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Thu 06/25/09 05:22 AM
If an ex is that involved in your life, the relationships over.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:29 AM
She really isn't, he just talks to her on the computer sometimes...

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Thu 06/25/09 05:30 AM
Pretty bad about that need to grow up, my dad seemed too have alot of female friends, I never could understand that, Im more like my mom in the sense of same sex friends creates no confusion other wise it seems jealousy is bound too pop up some time, although not always I hope spock slaphead

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