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Topic: i feel totally betrayed
catseyes1's photo
Wed 07/01/09 07:37 PM
I am sorry that you went through this, but sounds like she was playing with your emotions.

ToriKyo's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:29 PM
Move on (^o^)

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:32 PM

this one girl i knew for about 6 months now said she loved me and she would do anything to show that she loves me. i always said i loved her aswell but she would always push me back everytime because she was mad about school. after about 1 week of this she comes up to me and says she found a new lover and wants to be friends with me. im so confused right now. i invested so much time into this one person and she backstabs me like this.


Hate to say it, but she wasn't loving you then.

lighthouselover's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:34 PM

this one girl i knew for about 6 months now said she loved me and she would do anything to show that she loves me. i always said i loved her aswell but she would always push me back everytime because she was mad about school. after about 1 week of this she comes up to me and says she found a new lover and wants to be friends with me. im so confused right now. i invested so much time into this one person and she backstabs me like this.




did you date first? meet in person?

just to be clear...YOU have always told her that you loved her, and just recently she said it to you...after pushing you away because she was angry about school?

and now she changed her mind?

did you date prior to this one week or were you just friends?

"im so confused right now."


FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:00 PM

this one girl i knew for about 6 months now said she loved me and she would do anything to show that she loves me. i always said i loved her aswell but she would always push me back everytime because she was mad about school. after about 1 week of this she comes up to me and says she found a new lover and wants to be friends with me. im so confused right now. i invested so much time into this one person and she backstabs me like this.


Six months is hardly "so much time"...what's to be confused about? She moved on and left you in the dirt, what? You think you are the only one this happens too? That's dating, either get used to it or do like I did and drop the idea entirely.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:46 PM
she sounds flakey.

and you invested time???

shouldn't you be all broken up about your LOVE being lied to?

no photo
Thu 07/02/09 02:24 PM
I got 5 bucks says she's going to do the new guy the same way.


But after she sleeps with him.

CKeef's photo
Thu 07/02/09 03:05 PM
Edited by CKeef on Thu 07/02/09 03:09 PM

6 months of knowing this persons fake persona. i feel as if i cant trust anyone anymore. im glad all of you support me on this because the one person i would turn to when im this upset about something would be my ex girlfriend that i trusted for 6 months. i just hope this never happens to anybody else :(


Yeah... 9/10 people I knew back home in MA were like this only worse. Very narrow-vision, mostly on themselves and what they want, what they dont have, what they used to have... instead of what is already, or what is for others. Believe me when I say you got off easy. If you think that is emotional torment... -sigh- be happy you still have limbs intact, no crack-baby, no nights in jail... life goes on.

Roco's photo
Fri 07/03/09 01:03 AM
go to her, she is the only thing that can release your pain..and be her friend

roko

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Fri 07/03/09 01:08 AM

go to her, she is the only thing that can release your pain..and be her friend

roko


i don't think sonoway

no photo
Fri 07/03/09 01:09 AM
love doesn't hurt. if she loved you, there's nothing that other guy could have said or did to make her not love you anymore. i know it hurts- something similiar happened to me a few times- but time heals all wounds.

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