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Topic: May I please have some advice?
lonetar25's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:04 PM
why do they keep *ing the word eyes i said eyes bigsmile
hey baby, waiting for the wide angle lense to arive :wink:

babygirl98270's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:06 PM
HHHMMMMMMM???
Picture of your eyes? Ok I will wait

lonetar25's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:10 PM
my advice to them was eyes
your just getting a **** pic :wink: devil

Dragoness's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:10 PM

Thanks for your help if you decide to post something of importance. :] Just wanted to say that right away.


So I've been a complete idiot at the whole date thing since my boyfriend of two years and I broke up a little more than a year ago. That and no one has sparked my interest.

But, I was at this small party on July fourth. I was with my cousin, best friend, some other friends and then aquaintances. We all got drunk, obviously and I am usually the kind of person to be quiet if there are people I don't really know around.

I met this guy, and we ended up staying up until like 8 in the morning just talking after everyone passed out. (they passed out at like 2-3) We tried to watch movies, but it didn't work lol. I had met him a few times before at an ex friends apartment, but we never talked to eachother because he has the same problem as me, the whole anti-social around people they don't know. He told me I always seemed interesting, but didn't really talk to me because of that. We gave eachother our numbers, but I donno if I should call him first.

He seemed interested, I think. I don't know. Helllp? D:



Calling him will let him know you are interested but calling too soon can come off as desperate. If he doesn't call you within the first few days call him but stay casual and feel him out. He may be really shy too.

Good luck.

dutchman4u's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:34 PM
call him!

babygirl98270's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:45 PM

my advice to them was eyes
your just getting a **** pic :wink: devil


I :heart: **** picts.
I would like them better if *** and **** oh dont forget to send some ****** pictures as well

lonetar25's photo
Mon 07/06/09 12:49 PM
i said face pic... damn *`s, makin me sound rude slaphead

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Mon 07/06/09 12:49 PM
i like waiting for the guy to call, but that's just me. do whatever you feel comfortable with. good luck.

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Mon 07/06/09 12:50 PM

i said face pic... damn *`s, makin me sound rude slaphead


why would they bleep out face?

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Mon 07/06/09 12:51 PM

*Still waiting for lonetars picture*



i wouldn't mind one of those myselflaugh

Roco's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:03 PM
there's some theories out there that state if you call the guy first, or make the first approach, there's an increased chance of the relationship failing...but f@@@ the statistics, do what you want to do, if you like the guy, call him, i'm certain if he like you, he'll do the same....staying up into the wee hours of the night watching movie together is a very very good first indicator

roko

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Mon 07/06/09 09:55 PM
Edited by JaneStar1 on Mon 07/06/09 10:05 PM
Example of a casual phone call:

Hi, did you notice if I left anything at the table/bench we sat at? I cannot find my notebook/pen/whatever...


(that maneuver puts the ball in his court!) And can be used ANYTIME! * * * * * THE SOONER - THE BETTER * * * * * *

. . . And then play by the ear... (doesn't matter Left or Right one)
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MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/08/09 11:57 AM

there's some theories out there that state if you call the guy first, or make the first approach, there's an increased chance of the relationship failing...but f@@@ the statistics, do what you want to do, if you like the guy, call him, i'm certain if he like you, he'll do the same....staying up into the wee hours of the night watching movie together is a very very good first indicator

roko
:thumbsup:

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