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Topic: no sex in a relationship
Jon85213's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:12 PM
Just wondering what everyone's take is on internet dating. To me it sees that there is more of a push towards sex sooner. Does everyone find this to be true? Why is this? Why can't we just spend more time getting to know the real person. Just because their profile says all the right words does not mean that is who they are. Does anyone else fill like this?

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:13 PM
That's because some people on the internet are starving for sex

bgeorge's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:14 PM
it's like dating backwards...

grneyedldy1967's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:15 PM
I completely agree with you! I feel that most men I have gone out with are expecting sex to happen way too soon and if I wanted that heck I could go down to the local bar. NOT what I'm looking for... noway

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Mon 07/20/09 04:15 PM

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Mon 07/20/09 04:17 PM

I completely agree with you! I feel that most men I have gone out with are expecting sex to happen way too soon and if I wanted that heck I could go down to the local bar. NOT what I'm looking for... noway


I get the same thing. Myself I feel date for a few months before even considering sex. Its so much easier to see the warning signs when you are not focusing on getting laid.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:17 PM
you sound like some women i know, geessssshhhhhhhhhhh.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:17 PM
Hmmm Okay I'll disagree. Sometimes the internet forces you to actually talk more/longer than if dating in real life, due to the distance.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:17 PM





laugh perfect. yeah I feel the way you do.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:18 PM




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OMG freakin hilarious!

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:18 PM

That's because some people on the internet are starving for sex


HEY! I might resemble that remark! pitchfork

To the OP: internet or real life .... I'm kicking the tires as soon as feel the vibe to know whether I'm buying the car. winking

I know right away if someone will annoy the crap out of me or not, and if they have staying power (for a relationship).

There is no cure for bad sex so let's just test that right away! :laughing:

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Mon 07/20/09 04:18 PM
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Mon 07/20/09 04:18 PM

Just wondering what everyone's take is on internet dating. To me it sees that there is more of a push towards sex sooner. Does everyone find this to be true? Why is this? Why can't we just spend more time getting to know the real person. Just because their profile says all the right words does not mean that is who they are. Does anyone else fill like this?
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Jon85213's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:20 PM

Hmmm Okay I'll disagree. Sometimes the internet forces you to actually talk more/longer than if dating in real life, due to the distance.


right but that is not actual dating that is just getting to know them. Dating is in person not online. You get an idea of them but unless it is in real time true answers are often changed to correct answers.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:21 PM


Hmmm Okay I'll disagree. Sometimes the internet forces you to actually talk more/longer than if dating in real life, due to the distance.


right but that is not actual dating that is just getting to know them. Dating is in person not online. You get an idea of them but unless it is in real time true answers are often changed to correct answers.



Right. But I was speaking in the sense that you meet online first, then meet in person. In that sense you have gotten to know them without the clouding of uh let's say, tire kicking in the way.

Jon85213's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:22 PM


That's because some people on the internet are starving for sex


HEY! I might resemble that remark! pitchfork

To the OP: internet or real life .... I'm kicking the tires as soon as feel the vibe to know whether I'm buying the car. winking

I know right away if someone will annoy the crap out of me or not, and if they have staying power (for a relationship).

There is no cure for bad sex so let's just test that right away! :laughing:


depends on what you mean by bad sex. inexperience often resembles bad sex. so a willingness to learn might be the only cure.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:24 PM
Wow I'm soooo lucky

I met a man who tookhis time getting to really know me

I am not only sexy cute warm and desiarable

But oh so respected as well

( hey baldy !smooched )

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Mon 07/20/09 04:25 PM



Hmmm Okay I'll disagree. Sometimes the internet forces you to actually talk more/longer than if dating in real life, due to the distance.


right but that is not actual dating that is just getting to know them. Dating is in person not online. You get an idea of them but unless it is in real time true answers are often changed to correct answers.



Right. But I was speaking in the sense that you meet online first, then meet in person. In that sense you have gotten to know them without the clouding of uh let's say, tire kicking in the way.


ok i see where you are coming from. I guess I just differ in that way. i don't feel I can communicate effectively unless I am in person. I usually find out more about someone when talking in person as opposed to online

msmyka's photo
Mon 07/20/09 04:25 PM


That's because some people on the internet are starving for sex


HEY! I might resemble that remark! pitchfork

To the OP: internet or real life .... I'm kicking the tires as soon as feel the vibe to know whether I'm buying the car. winking

I know right away if someone will annoy the crap out of me or not, and if they have staying power (for a relationship).

There is no cure for bad sex so let's just test that right away! :laughing:


Word! And bad sex can just mean the two people are not sexually compatible regardless of level of experience. Although experience does tend to help :angel:


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Mon 07/20/09 04:26 PM

Wow I'm soooo lucky

I met a man who tookhis time getting to really know me

I am not only sexy cute warm and desiarable

But oh so respected as well

( hey baldy !smooched )



Hey beautiful. Whatcha doing? flowers

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