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haha well your judgement mistake is thinking that i just sit there and say its allright he was a prick..you can ask anyone that is in the other forums with me..im far from that. but i am there for them. cause i am a "good" friend. but that doesnt mean that i dont tell them its there fault in the first place. if being good is something that you do not so often i can tell that making correct judgements is certainly NOT one of those few times you choose so. I made no judgments about you personally. |
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I'm just a rough looking, hard working man. I sneer at the women that chase those pretty boys, knowing that quite possibly they'll find out that he's a whiner and has no real personality, but at least they look good together awe  p.s. I'm not a nice guy but can be good if you deserve it  Well said. So you wanna join up or not??? lol |
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<--- NOT a good guy..  <--- NOT a handsome guy... <--- NOT a muscular guy .... BUT...  <--- ... I'm a great guy, just ask me  You were doing great all the way up to that last line. Self confidence isn't allowed here...lmao |
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hmm well i wish i would of seen this thread when it had started..so do i gotta like give you my soul to be in here? or a drop of blood or something? cause im down for anything that talks about gettin passed up for the tool looking dillholes that you warn every girl about, just to be there for her when she gets hurt Now see...that last part is the " nice " guy. We aren't about that. We may have to draw some blood to cleanse you of that particular problem. The difference between the " good " guy and the " nice " guy is this... The " nice " guy is there for her with a shoulder to cry on, and all the right things to say, only to watch her repeat the same mistakes next time around. Then he'll complain about it. The " GOOD " guy is the one who let's her know that he's there for her, but also let's her know that it's her own fault for not looking deeper into the reasoning for the choices she makes. That is what a friend is as opposed to a doormat. He knows the he and she could be good together, but accepts the fact that he just isn't what she wants. But he doesn't complain about it. Nice guys whine about being overlooked. Isn't that what you're doing in this thread?  Not really. It doesn't really surprise me that you would think so. I am simply making a statement that there are a whole lot of guys thinking about, but choosing not to do so. There is a huge difference between ' whining ' about something, and simply stating an idea. Yes, there is a difference. However, most of the time you have this bitter, woe is me thing going on. I know you think it's just stating an idea, but it sounds pretty whiny. If that works for you though, go for it. |
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So wait, where IS the hot guy with no personality thread?
BWAHAHHAHAHAA so kidding 
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This thread is so inspiring me to redo my profile. "I am not a beauty queen but am not butt ugly either. I am somewhere in between. I am not a biotch...but play one on tv and have the talent of bringing it out when the situation calls for it. I can be "nice" if you deserve it. But, I can be really bad, too. " How is that for a start? In the meantime, I am going to sit back and take notes. I am not looking for a Brad Pitt or George Clooney...a Patrick Swayze would be nice...hmmm. I am looking for someone that compliments me and makes me feel that special something that no one else does. If you were to change your profile to say something like that, I can't say whether or not it would get you more responses. Some may take it as a sign of you being insecure with yourself. Me? I see it as simply being realistic and knowing exactly who you are. There aren't many of us who have heartthrob looks. But there are lots of us who know our worth. :-) |
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OK, so justaguy? Yes, I know you, no you're not getting flamed for it (at least I'm not flaming ya), and YES for SURE time and getting to know each-other can increase attraction BIG time. But see, here's the problem with that in relation to this thread, at least from where I'm sitting -- Many of us here will never get that chance with anyone else here. Distance is a bi**h. Well...here's my thought on that. There are a whole lot of people who will tell you that ' anything is possible '. In a way, I actually believe that. I have always been one of those that figures, if two people truly want to be together, they will be. One way or another. But it's not even a matter of being together. To me, it's just a matter of allowing yourself to take the time to get to know someone that you might not in another time and place. |
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So wait, where IS the hot guy with no personality thread? BWAHAHHAHAHAA so kidding Well..I suppose I could make one of those threads too. But it probably wouldn't work real well since I'm not the " hot " guy...lol |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Tue 07/21/09 09:34 PM
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hmm well i wish i would of seen this thread when it had started..so do i gotta like give you my soul to be in here? or a drop of blood or something? cause im down for anything that talks about gettin passed up for the tool looking dillholes that you warn every girl about, just to be there for her when she gets hurt Now see...that last part is the " nice " guy. We aren't about that. We may have to draw some blood to cleanse you of that particular problem. The difference between the " good " guy and the " nice " guy is this... The " nice " guy is there for her with a shoulder to cry on, and all the right things to say, only to watch her repeat the same mistakes next time around. Then he'll complain about it. The " GOOD " guy is the one who let's her know that he's there for her, but also let's her know that it's her own fault for not looking deeper into the reasoning for the choices she makes. That is what a friend is as opposed to a doormat. He knows the he and she could be good together, but accepts the fact that he just isn't what she wants. But he doesn't complain about it. Nice guys whine about being overlooked. Isn't that what you're doing in this thread? Not really. It doesn't really surprise me that you would think so. I am simply making a statement that there are a whole lot of guys thinking about, but choosing not to do so. There is a huge difference between ' whining ' about something, and simply stating an idea. Yes, there is a difference. However, most of the time you have this bitter, woe is me thing going on. I know you think it's just stating an idea, but it sounds pretty whiny. If that works for you though, go for it. You are free to read into my words whatever you wish. You can see me in any way that floats your boat. It really doesn't mater to me. Those that have taken the time to get to know me, and know my personality, know exactly what I am doing and why. This is not about ' whining ' about anything at all. This is more about a whole lot of guys out there who feel under appreciated. Just take a look around this thread. Are you going to sit there and say that every single guy who thinks he qualifies for what the thread was intended is being nothing more than ' whiny "??? |
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Membership still open???? Sure is. Come on in. :-) |
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To me, attitude plays a big part in things. If you're always down on yourself, going on and on about how you're passed over for other men, that makes you (or anyone with that same type of attitude) less attractive. No matter what they look like.
On the other hand, someone who may not be super hot, but is confident and not whiny will be much more attractive in my eyes. |
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So wait, where IS the hot guy with no personality thread? BWAHAHHAHAHAA so kidding Not all hot guys lack personality, you don't have to be ugly to be interesting. |
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True, anything is possible.
There aren't many of us who have heartthrob looks. But there are lots of us who know our worth. :-) And I want THAT on a freekin bumper sticker. I think I shall call you Swamee from now on... |
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hmm well i wish i would of seen this thread when it had started..so do i gotta like give you my soul to be in here? or a drop of blood or something? cause im down for anything that talks about gettin passed up for the tool looking dillholes that you warn every girl about, just to be there for her when she gets hurt Now see...that last part is the " nice " guy. We aren't about that. We may have to draw some blood to cleanse you of that particular problem. The difference between the " good " guy and the " nice " guy is this... The " nice " guy is there for her with a shoulder to cry on, and all the right things to say, only to watch her repeat the same mistakes next time around. Then he'll complain about it. The " GOOD " guy is the one who let's her know that he's there for her, but also let's her know that it's her own fault for not looking deeper into the reasoning for the choices she makes. That is what a friend is as opposed to a doormat. He knows the he and she could be good together, but accepts the fact that he just isn't what she wants. But he doesn't complain about it. Nice guys whine about being overlooked. Isn't that what you're doing in this thread? Not really. It doesn't really surprise me that you would think so. I am simply making a statement that there are a whole lot of guys thinking about, but choosing not to do so. There is a huge difference between ' whining ' about something, and simply stating an idea. Yes, there is a difference. However, most of the time you have this bitter, woe is me thing going on. I know you think it's just stating an idea, but it sounds pretty whiny. If that works for you though, go for it. You are free to read into my words whatever you wish. You can see me in any way that floats your boat. It really doesn't mater to me. Those that have taken the time to get to know me, and know my personality, know exactly what I am doing and why. This is not about ' whining ' about anything at all. This is more about a whole lot of guys out there who feel under appreciated. Just take a look around this thread. Are you going to sit there and say that every single guy who thinks he qualifies for what the thread was intended is being nothing more than ' whiny "??? Most guys in here were not whining. |
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To me, attitude plays a big part in things. If you're always down on yourself, going on and on about how you're passed over for other men, that makes you (or anyone with that same type of attitude) less attractive. No matter what they look like. On the other hand, someone who may not be super hot, but is confident and not whiny will be much more attractive in my eyes. But again. You have not taken any time to really get to know me. If you had, you would know that my sense of humor allows me to make fun of myself without hating myself. I am very confident in who I am. I am a chubby, bald, strange dude. But ya know what?? I LOVE being me. I have a whole lot of fun being me. I, unlike a lot of other folks, just don't take myself all that seriously. |
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i think i jumped out of here a way while back
so i know i wasnt whining....... but i love conflict so whats up??? 
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hmm well i wish i would of seen this thread when it had started..so do i gotta like give you my soul to be in here? or a drop of blood or something? cause im down for anything that talks about gettin passed up for the tool looking dillholes that you warn every girl about, just to be there for her when she gets hurt Now see...that last part is the " nice " guy. We aren't about that. We may have to draw some blood to cleanse you of that particular problem. The difference between the " good " guy and the " nice " guy is this... The " nice " guy is there for her with a shoulder to cry on, and all the right things to say, only to watch her repeat the same mistakes next time around. Then he'll complain about it. The " GOOD " guy is the one who let's her know that he's there for her, but also let's her know that it's her own fault for not looking deeper into the reasoning for the choices she makes. That is what a friend is as opposed to a doormat. He knows the he and she could be good together, but accepts the fact that he just isn't what she wants. But he doesn't complain about it. Nice guys whine about being overlooked. Isn't that what you're doing in this thread? Not really. It doesn't really surprise me that you would think so. I am simply making a statement that there are a whole lot of guys thinking about, but choosing not to do so. There is a huge difference between ' whining ' about something, and simply stating an idea. Yes, there is a difference. However, most of the time you have this bitter, woe is me thing going on. I know you think it's just stating an idea, but it sounds pretty whiny. If that works for you though, go for it. You are free to read into my words whatever you wish. You can see me in any way that floats your boat. It really doesn't mater to me. Those that have taken the time to get to know me, and know my personality, know exactly what I am doing and why. This is not about ' whining ' about anything at all. This is more about a whole lot of guys out there who feel under appreciated. Just take a look around this thread. Are you going to sit there and say that every single guy who thinks he qualifies for what the thread was intended is being nothing more than ' whiny "??? Most guys in here were not whining. Ohhh...I see. It was only ME that was whining, right??? Like I said. You can think of me whatever floats your boat. You are one person among many. If you don't find my sense of humor attractive, that's fine. |
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So wait, where IS the hot guy with no personality thread? BWAHAHHAHAHAA so kidding Not all hot guys lack personality, you don't have to be ugly to be interesting. What is "hot" anyway? |
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To me, attitude plays a big part in things. If you're always down on yourself, going on and on about how you're passed over for other men, that makes you (or anyone with that same type of attitude) less attractive. No matter what they look like. On the other hand, someone who may not be super hot, but is confident and not whiny will be much more attractive in my eyes. But again. You have not taken any time to really get to know me. If you had, you would know that my sense of humor allows me to make fun of myself without hating myself. I am very confident in who I am. I am a chubby, bald, strange dude. But ya know what?? I LOVE being me. I have a whole lot of fun being me. I, unlike a lot of other folks, just don't take myself all that seriously. No, I don't know you other than what you say in the forums. So, that's all I have to go on. But, if you're happy with you, that's great. 
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Um, hi... did anyone else miss that I was joking?
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