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But what if, just for the sake of argument/debate, when you DID meet him, he wasn't what you thought he would be? What if he had deceived you in some way?? That is why I say it can only really happen when there is face to face contact. The meeting can solidify what you already feel, or it can completely change it. Until that point, there is just no way to really know. don't people fall in, and out, of love all the time - in the real world as well? how many of us have been in relationships where the person changed in some way, and let us down, deceived us, lied to us? does that mean that the love we had for them before never existed? or does it mean simply that as the relationship ended, so did the loving? Yes. They do. But, in those real life situations, there is physical contact and interaction that allows you to determine whether the person has changed. In a situation like this, you really wouldn't know if the person " changed " until you know for certain, through meeting, that the person really IS who they said they were. As far as I can see, nobody is debating that in order for a relationship to PROGRESS..there has to be the physical contact. I don't think I've ever heard of any romantic linking in which there was a mutual agreement to be in cyberlove forever. (haha, this is ironic..if you knew me..but..) The question as I read it, was in regards to at what point is it 'okay' to admit you've been bitten by the love bug and are no longer interested in being 'available.' I could be wrong. Yes, your right, but also, as a woman, would you be offended if a guy you were trying to get to know and see where things could go together, was also doing the same thing with a couple of other women at the same time. Is that being a player, or is that being rude and disrespectful, or is that consider OK. I don't see a difference between getting to know this person online, or getting to know someone in person. In any relationship, at some point committment is addressed. Am I missing something in the question? Later on you find out that the guy was also trying to get to know another girl in the same way and after he dated you both for a few times, he is gonna pick the best out of the two of you. Wouldnt that be what a player does? Thats what I dont want to do, and I had two friends really badger me for not wanting to date others while I am trying to work on this new girl. Well, yes..in MY opinion that is wrong. Online/Offline/Any mix of the two.. that's what I was mostly getting at. Thanks for the input 
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your welcome...
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i was no use whatsoever
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 Ready to thumb wrestle now,? ..best two of three? thats where u learned to swear at me   We could play Rock, Paper, Scissors for him instead.. how about Barak paper scizzors? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2mcdS6ioo8 |
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YEA a Love Date! Congratulations that is great.. fantastic.. Now that is why these sites were made...
To find the one that fits you well, to take a chance and just chill, relax and take a breath..... O how wonderful for you, I wish you the best may you have found the one women that makes your heart drop with sweaty palms.... Sometimes you just do it and don't look back it is the best way no matter what! Because if you don't give it that one chance you might regret it one day... so close your eyes and JUMP! Take a chance! Regardless if you make it or not it is that you Tried that is what counts. I wish you both a happy life... Yea.... congrats... |
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i was no use whatsoever Yea you were, you almost said vagina, that was priceless |
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YEA a Love Date! Congratulations that is great.. fantastic.. Now that is why these sites were made... To find the one that fits you well, to take a chance and just chill, relax and take a breath..... O how wonderful for you, I wish you the best may you have found the one women that makes your heart drop with sweaty palms.... Sometimes you just do it and don't look back it is the best way no matter what! Because if you don't give it that one chance you might regret it one day... so close your eyes and JUMP! Take a chance! Regardless if you make it or not it is that you Tried that is what counts. I wish you both a happy life... Yea.... congrats... Thankyou, that was sweet.... your a doll... |
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Everyone on here deserves to be happy... They come here because they hope to find someone, sometimes they come because they just need a few moments away from there life. but to really have found someone that will compleat you that is just so exciting and wonderful...
again.. I hope this rest of this year that each and everyone that wants to find love will have the chance to do this! Maybe you are the start of a long list of others that will take a chance.... so many men and women are so dang shy and they just sit at the computer hoping to date, but in the end of the night, they walk away alone.... Because they never tryed to see who just might take the chance..... A gift to all of you! A PRAYER FOR LOVE Teach me to love, Lord, as You love, Make it unconditional, honest, and kind, To ask nothing back in return, Lord, To encompass the whole of mankind. May I offer my love without speaking, May it radiate as it shines forth from me, May it be seen in my face and my eyes, Lord, May it be simple, sincere, and shame free. Show me how to forgive, Lord, as You do, To not burden another with guilt, To not play the role of the martyr, To be a rock on which trust may be built. Make my love for others be greater by far Than any love that is offered to me, Led by the Spirit, Inspired of God, As forgiving as Jesus...and free. May this love go around and set you all free to love and be loved and find love... |
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Ready to thumb wrestle now,? ..best two of three? thats where u learned to swear at me We could play Rock, Paper, Scissors for him instead.. ok i'm scissors  Paper...oh damn lol, lol ohhhhhh phil hunni  leave my AZZ out of this...lol |
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i was no use whatsoever Yea you were, you almost said vagina, that was priceless almost 
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Ready to thumb wrestle now,? ..best two of three? thats where u learned to swear at me We could play Rock, Paper, Scissors for him instead.. ok i'm scissors Paper...oh damn lol, lol ohhhhhh phil hunni leave my AZZ out of this...lol oh there u are sweetie 
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You're doing the right thing. When you play the "game", some one has to lose.
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Edited by
gayfifer
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Sat 08/08/09 07:30 PM
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g'night u two 
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g'night!
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You're doing the right thing. When you play the "game", some one has to lose. yes, that's how I feel about it too, Thank You |
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