Maybe because sometimes guys or girls just can't handle having that "relationship" outside of the screen and the phone..they get as you called it cold feet..because things maybe become more real? Im not sure..i've not yet had it happen to me.

May they were married??

Or they live to far away.

ew that happened to me once, he'd lied before and finally admitted it, not only was he married but really old too.

If "you" are talking to someone who decides not to meet you, that must mean the "IT" factor is not there for them.

I wanna get dumbed by a girl and I won't even care if she has cold feets.

Who knows why people do what they do!?

Hang in there!

Love to you

I think a lot of people just want and on-line relationship because it is just cheaper/easier than a in person relationship.

Think abut it on line you are able to be home, comfortable, watching TV, eating or anything else you can multitask doing. You get to talk about your day. You can edit what you say.

Real life it is much more stressful. Strung between two places suck. Driving home when you are tired. Having to really pay attention. It is expensive. Then the whole sex thing usually is mediocre or worse.

The younger people can avoid pregnancy and the older people get to pretend they are young in the fantasy. .

I am always amamzed the people who are satisfied with so little. An occassional visit just wouldn't do it for me. But obviously for a lot of people it is enough. If it wasn't they would do something different.

idk...havent crossed that bridge yet. Does it happen a lot?

What

yes,....or maybe they just are not in to you...Have you seen the movie????

Is that coz he realized he is a loser ?

May be , just may be the girls (not all though) read too much into the friendliness of the guy. If he talks and responds some (again I stress some) girls think wedding bells.

No No

whereever I go she is on the top not that I mind

that movie was awesome

If someone has to travel a fairly long distance than:

Taking time off from work using vacation days
Airline tickets
Hotel room (unless you invite them into your home)
Money for entertainment while they visit you
Misc expenses ( I have to have my dog boarded)

Is it possible this could be a factor in some cases of people male or female bailing out??

retardation, or marriage.. *squints eyes* hmm, same thing isnt it?

yes I agree