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Topic: Is the constent heartache worth the search?
Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:26 PM



I know what you are saying, just not sure why the ones that move me, are not moved, not in the way I am. I screen the people I am intrested in, not only by looks but by their soul, their personality, and then I see myself sitting here alone yet another day.


you just divorced...you haven't been alone all that long.


Been alone for 9 months now.


a whole 9 months huh?
Relax, it will happen, take some time for your self. :heart:




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Sat 08/29/09 08:28 PM
Well you are asking"does the end justify the means?"well it most certainly does if we find the significant other whom we seek.I've been here since my divorce which amounts to nearly 3 yrs.& I have not found her yet however within me lies hope.I have learned that patience & perseverance are the keys.Heartache,sorrow & anxiety are not.Stay strong!Godspeed!Cy :smile: drinker

cityblues21's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:30 PM
When you just do what you normally do, without the sense of urgency in regards to searching... there really isn't any constant heartache... give up the search... just be yourself and make friends that have the same interests, values, and morals. There really isn't any deadline or timeline. Life is not a race.

EarthSprite's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:32 PM
I don't search....I let things unfold as they will....

And every night I look upon Grandmother Moon knowing that he is looking at her too....flowerforyou

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Sat 08/29/09 08:32 PM
If you find someone worth the wait and heartacheflowerforyou

writer_gurl's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:34 PM
Edited by writer_gurl on Sat 08/29/09 08:35 PM
Ooohhh, you get heartaches too?ohwell

Wish I could help

flowerforyou

wux's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:35 PM
Edited by wux on Sat 08/29/09 08:37 PM

Is the constent heartache worth the search? I'm beginning to wonder.


Ask not what it's worth; ask, instead, what is the only alternative. Your answer will be, no search, no heartache.

It would be very boring and pointless to live such a life. Only very strong people can do it, like priests and people in prisons.

Dragoness's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:37 PM

Is the constent heartache worth the search? I'm beginning to wonder.


Considering the feeling of being in love, which I miss by the way, I would say yes, it is worth it if you can find it again.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:42 PM
Todo es mentira

Nada es real

bedlum1's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:44 PM

Is the constent heartache worth the search? I'm beginning to wonder.
do me a favor and read "to take a chance" posted in creative writing,,u dont want life filled will regrets of missed chances wondering what might have been, theres no such thing as good or bad, just experience, its what u decide to do with it that matters

wux's photo
Sat 08/29/09 08:45 PM
What search?


:helenoftroy: laugh :henrikIbsen: :gogogirl: :thedeclienandfalloftheromanempire:

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