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Topic: Here comes the ex...
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Tue 09/08/09 09:50 PM

I was exchanging emails with a decent sounding guy and on the 7th email he casually mentions his ex. Does anyone see that as a red flag?


Well either He is being honest and sharing a little too much too early or he's not an expert at dating.

If either of those things sound bad, there is definitely a red flag malfunction going on.

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Tue 09/08/09 09:50 PM

I dont hate any of my exes anymore.....I have no feelings towards them. That means, I am over them.

If you harbour such hate over someone, you are not over it. GET OVER IT!!!rant explode laugh


I hate everyone, it's not personal.:wink: flowerforyou

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Tue 09/08/09 09:52 PM


I dont hate any of my exes anymore.....I have no feelings towards them. That means, I am over them.

If you harbour such hate over someone, you are not over it. GET OVER IT!!!rant explode laugh


I hate everyone, it's not personal.:wink: flowerforyou
hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa I love ya!!!laugh flowerforyou laugh drinker

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Wed 09/09/09 12:07 AM



I dont hate any of my exes anymore.....I have no feelings towards them. That means, I am over them.

If you harbour such hate over someone, you are not over it. GET OVER IT!!!rant explode laugh


I hate everyone, it's not personal.:wink: flowerforyou
hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa I love ya!!!laugh flowerforyou laugh drinker


awww i love you toooo!!!flowerforyou

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Wed 09/09/09 03:00 PM

I want to know about the ex's...all of them...in minute detail...


so I know how he will describe me...when I become one...noway laugh laugh laugh


All female ex's are usually crazy B****es!!! LOL ....

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Wed 09/09/09 03:04 PM

I was exchanging emails with a decent sounding guy and on the 7th email he casually mentions his ex. Does anyone see that as a red flag?


Is this an X spouse or X g/f? In what context did he mention her? I don't think if he says he "hates" her, it means he's not over her. Doesn't mean he's bitter either maybe just mad as hell. laugh

I agree with Jess. We can't pretend we don't have a past. Hopefully once he says all he wants to say about her he will stop speaking about her.

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Wed 09/09/09 03:05 PM
Would depend how he's talkin bout her for me. If a guy is constantly bitchin bout the ex then I gotta say waving

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Wed 09/09/09 03:08 PM


Depends on what he said about her. If he's still in love with her, yeah it's a red flag. If he hates her, he's a keeper.flowerforyou

But if he hates her doesn't that mean he's really still not over her?


My thoughts and experience as well!!!

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