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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist.
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It's happened to me but...I'd rather not talk about it, thank you.
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that's okay, you don't have to, but what I think is how we bounce back from a betrayal, especially a serious one. Do we retaliate, do we ignore, do we forgive, do we forget, there is no right answer. Depending on how you go about it you may yet have the last laugh. And when someone hurts you, you want to be the one feeling the least pain.
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No regrets..
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting.
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Therin lies the devil amd the deep blue sea, yes we do become stronger, and we do become less trusting, but does that mean we become jaded, bitter, a little piece of our heart has died? This is a tough nut to crack. |
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Therin lies the devil amd the deep blue sea, yes we do become stronger, and we do become less trusting, but does that mean we become jaded, bitter, a little piece of our heart has died? This is a tough nut to crack. |
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Therin lies the devil amd the deep blue sea, yes we do become stronger, and we do become less trusting, but does that mean we become jaded, bitter, a little piece of our heart has died? This is a tough nut to crack. I totally agree, with that, but what my conscience struggles with is that how do I know that next beautiful woman won't betray me like my ex? You know, that doubt, that pain, that betrayal that itches in the back of your brain? I'm a very forgiving, peaceful, loving man, but I do have feelings, and I don't want to be hurt again. But then again, life is a craps game, sometimes you hit it, sometimes you lose. |
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it's easy to sit here and blame the other person; however, it's not fair since it would all be one-sided. i am just as much to blame, if not more, for any of the relationships in which i've been involved that haven't lasted.
introspect is what it's all about and i don't need to confess, bemoan and vent to a site full of entire strangers in order to do that. |
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happened to me more than I have had hot dinners
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i used to be that girl who loved the bad boys and it took a great toll on my self esteem,its still hard to go on dates cuz i flash back to those bad relationships.
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Therin lies the devil amd the deep blue sea, yes we do become stronger, and we do become less trusting, but does that mean we become jaded, bitter, a little piece of our heart has died? This is a tough nut to crack. That only happens if you allow it. How you react to the betrayal is your choice and your responsibility. If you choose to become less trusting, jaded, bitter, well, that's on you. 
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Therin lies the devil amd the deep blue sea, yes we do become stronger, and we do become less trusting, but does that mean we become jaded, bitter, a little piece of our heart has died? This is a tough nut to crack. I totally agree, with that, but what my conscience struggles with is that how do I know that next beautiful woman won't betray me like my ex? You know, that doubt, that pain, that betrayal that itches in the back of your brain? I'm a very forgiving, peaceful, loving man, but I do have feelings, and I don't want to be hurt again. But then again, life is a craps game, sometimes you hit it, sometimes you lose. If you still feel that, they you are not ready to start over again. Really, how fair would it be to dump that on some innocent woman? Take whatever time you need to really move on before you start looking.
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Therin lies the devil amd the deep blue sea, yes we do become stronger, and we do become less trusting, but does that mean we become jaded, bitter, a little piece of our heart has died? This is a tough nut to crack. I totally agree, with that, but what my conscience struggles with is that how do I know that next beautiful woman won't betray me like my ex? You know, that doubt, that pain, that betrayal that itches in the back of your brain? I'm a very forgiving, peaceful, loving man, but I do have feelings, and I don't want to be hurt again. But then again, life is a craps game, sometimes you hit it, sometimes you lose. If you still feel that, they you are not ready to start over again. Really, how fair would it be to dump that on some innocent woman? Take whatever time you need to really move on before you start looking. Ah, but you mis-read me, I am very open minded here, and am willing to give the next person a chance, but I may not so brazenly and blindly dive into the pool as I once did before. |
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Edited by
romee
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Tue 09/29/09 04:16 AM
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yes it 's happeend to me recently! i kinda hate
 her and it seems like there are no good women out there for me! 
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ha! this is the story of my life...i am a completely honest and faithful girl and every single person ive been with has cheated on me and the one tht didnt i left for another one who ended up doing it to me...
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You know that special someone who you fell helplessly head over heels in love for, gave up everything for them, all in the name of love, only to have them betray you like Judas and stab you in the back 100 times? Share your stories. I am a very happy person, but have the experience of this happening to me and I think we all need to vent and be each other's therapist.  yes
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it's easy to sit here and blame the other person; however, it's not fair since it would all be one-sided. i am just as much to blame, if not more, for any of the relationships in which i've been involved that haven't lasted. introspect is what it's all about and i don't need to confess, bemoan and vent to a site full of entire strangers in order to do that. Recognizing and accepting responsibility for our own failures in a relationship is a large step toward not making the same mistakes in the future. 
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not on my part for me i did everything for this woman! she contacted me first on myspace she was all over me! alway's complimented me she's a german woman i went by myself to germany to visit her last year she alway's said she loved me! missed me everything i said it to i don't know what went wrong? she said she had high depression and she was doing drugs she said she had to go to rehab she said she needed some time to get better! well she told me she loves me and that she would stay in touch well she lied big time that was 6 months ago! i never heard from her since plus i saw she took me off her friends list! i mean no dear john letter nothing i'm just in the dark confused hartbroken everyday i never cheated i'm in pain everyday! i tried talking to a few women on here but but they talk crap to. no caliing or they just be nuts to for me i have no trust in women at least maybe on day someone could prove me wrong!
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not on my part for me i did everything for this woman! she contacted me first on myspace she was all over me! alway's complimented me she's a german woman i went by myself to germany to visit her last year she alway's said she loved me! missed me everything i said it to i don't know what went wrong? she said she had high depression and she was doing drugs she said she had to go to rehab she said she needed some time to get better! well she told me she loves me and that she would stay in touch well she lied big time that was 6 months ago! i never heard from her since plus i saw she took me off her friends list! i mean no dear john letter nothing i'm just in the dark confused hartbroken everyday i never cheated i'm in pain everyday! i tried talking to a few women on here but but they talk crap to. no caliing or they just be nuts to for me i have no trust in women at least maybe on day someone could prove me wrong! You're mistake is thinking you have no responsibility in this. You participated in the relationship, you chose to be in the relationship, you chose to have a ldr with a woman you didn't know, who had drug and depression issues. These were all YOUR choices. I'm not saying you deserved to have this happen to you. But you do bear some responsibility. And what you learn from that will serve you well in the future. Playing the victim and blaming everything on someone else for YOUR choices will not get you anything but more heartache. Take responsibility for you and your life and your choices, see where you could have done things differently and LEARN. Then move on. |
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