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Topic: Might Have Found Love.
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Sat 11/14/09 08:04 PM
flowerforyou Ive taking the advice from people on here to heart. I have met a guy who is really sweet, and maybe he might be the one. Do you call it love if you've known them for 2 days or am I just being stupid?frustrated

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Sat 11/14/09 08:06 PM
By definition that is lust, not love. Two days is hardly enough time to fall in love with someone regardless of how often you talk over the phone or in messages online, you have to figure out what you like and dislike about a person and that alone can take years to do.

Not stupid, just confused.

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Sat 11/14/09 08:07 PM
Nah...give it five days, then get married in 10 days, and.......

I don't think you are being stupid...but a little silly. Gotta know them a little bit more before you can call it love.

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Sat 11/14/09 08:08 PM
don't rush it...there's no hurry. you have a crush right now. Good luck to you flowerforyou

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Sat 11/14/09 08:09 PM
You need to give it time!!

Time!!

That's way to fast IMO!!!:heart:

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Sat 11/14/09 08:09 PM
honey no offense but he could be gone tomorrow. DOn't get your hopes so high flowerforyou many man times people online quit talking to someone even when things seem to be going great.

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Sat 11/14/09 08:11 PM

flowerforyou Ive taking the advice from people on here to heart. I have met a guy who is really sweet, and maybe he might be the one. Do you call it love if you've known them for 2 days or am I just being stupid?frustrated


You're walking in a mine field with snow shoes...careful. If he's the real thing...he'll be there.flowerforyou

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Sat 11/14/09 08:12 PM
Take your time.....It's like running downhill. Don't get going so fast you fall end over end. Walk slowly with caution.... And, good luck girl :) that's awesome.

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Sat 11/14/09 08:13 PM
I think its possible to know if its LOVE :heart: from the FIRST date!:thumbsup:

WE met on Jan. 12th....It was love at first sight...love

I brought him home with me....then it was love at first feel-:wink:

and we've been together ever since!!smitten

I cant imagine my life without him-noway

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Sat 11/14/09 08:24 PM

I think its possible to know if its LOVE :heart: from the FIRST date!:thumbsup:

WE met on Jan. 12th....It was love at first sight...love

I brought him home with me....then it was love at first feel-:wink:

and we've been together ever since!!smitten

I cant imagine my life without him-noway



I think I know if ALL the ingredients are there pretty much right away but I still only believe in lust at first site.blushing I mean how do you know if he kicks the dog? How do you know if he lies to his mother? Totally intolerable things & I couldn't love someone who did these things and can only learn the true colors of another over time. Just my thoughts. Noone has to agree happy

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Sat 11/14/09 08:31 PM


I think its possible to know if its LOVE :heart: from the FIRST date!:thumbsup:

WE met on Jan. 12th....It was love at first sight...love

I brought him home with me....then it was love at first feel-:wink:

and we've been together ever since!!smitten

I cant imagine my life without him-noway



I think I know if ALL the ingredients are there pretty much right away but I still only believe in lust at first site.blushing I mean how do you know if he kicks the dog? How do you know if he lies to his mother? Totally intolerable things & I couldn't love someone who did these things and can only learn the true colors of another over time. Just my thoughts. Noone has to agree happy



Yeah, that's cool too!:thumbsup: shades

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Sat 11/14/09 10:08 PM
Edited by catseyes1 on Sat 11/14/09 10:10 PM

flowerforyou Ive taking the advice from people on here to heart. I have met a guy who is really sweet, and maybe he might be the one. Do you call it love if you've known them for 2 days or am I just being stupid?frustrated



You met him and only known him for 2 days that is not love, take it slow don't hurry and make sure you both are on the same wave length.
It's lust your feeling now. JMO

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Sat 11/14/09 10:34 PM
I smell a future where are all the nice guys thread ohwell

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Sat 11/14/09 10:38 PM
If he has lots of money to spend on ya---grab his A$$ and take him to the church!! If it don't work out--you split the cash---I love this country!!!bigsmile bigsmile

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Sat 11/14/09 11:18 PM
I could never trust the judgment of anyone who could fall in love with me in two days!!
I have to know all about a person before I can "FALL IN LOVE"

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Sat 11/14/09 11:22 PM

I could never trust the judgment of anyone who could fall in love with me in two days!!
I have to know all about a person before I can "FALL IN LOVE"

agreed

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Sat 11/14/09 11:28 PM
But being lusted after once in a while can be a real ego boost!!pitchfork

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Sat 11/14/09 11:58 PM
Um, no, it's not love, and please don't tell him that. It will only drive him away. Get to know him first, for a loooooong time and then see how you feel. Good luck, it's nice to like someone isn't it?flowerforyou

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Sun 11/15/09 12:29 AM
hehe I have to say this is one of the few threads I have seen where we ALL agree that this is just a bad idea laugh noway

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Sun 11/15/09 12:37 AM

hehe I have to say this is one of the few threads I have seen where we ALL agree that this is just a bad idea laugh noway


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