ive been through the same thing as you man. girls fail to realize that we will most likely be the nicest guys you can find and treat them like they should be.instead they see our heavy structure or as i call my self fluffy from gabriel iglesias and they ignore us. but in the end we might be single but there in a relationship that may not be so great because she went with looks.

funny thread...

Careful, dude.

We can't have this turn into a " nice guy " thread.

Hmmm...I am 5' 8" and 200 pounds...

Does that qualify me as a " big guy "???

you have to fall before you can walk. and you got to go thru the plenty of plenty of bitc*es before you find the honest bunch. they only leave when you give up.

Lose weight or accept the reality that your looks are not what is going to attract a women. Women are not typically attracted to nice.

Lets be fair here..everyone has a preference. Yes, we gals do want a kind person who treats us well..we all have a physical preference. I happen to like to go hiking a lot...my favorite thing to do in the summer. I also go to the gym and work out to stay in shape. I like swimming..

If one is very large and out of shape is he going to be able to hike for 3 hours with me..does he even want to work out..doesn't look that way. Just because someone isn't interested in a bigger person doesn't mean were b!tches.
Same thing when the big girls make threads and are complaining that the guys are not interested in them..then the guys get called shallow a-holes.

...seek out a partner that is also big..or get out there and change it. I work hard to stay fit and I'm not a spring chicken anymore. I would get heavy if I didn't move, workout, swim, hike. Also some bigger people MAY have bad eating habits..I also watch my diet to avoid gaining weight...

I think sometimes the girls are just trying to be polite and nice,,,,with an edge of flirt,,,as that is just in-them to do with all dudes,,,but we take it as a hit....
Then we get let down,,,but,,hey,,,I'm not a big guy,,just talked to many of every kind on the planet,wink...

You just "F"'d up man. Never say nice guy. NEVER!!!

What does you being a big dude have to do with you being a potential "Nice Guy"? You could be a jerk to some woman just like a skinny dude could. So, end of discussion on that.

yeah...don't be nice just be goofy..or better yet call yourself goofy, then the chicks will did ya..right goof

Hell No! I am the meanest, ugliest son-of-a-beatch on this site!

well, hell I know that..a-hole...but the verbiage works

WHAT?

I've been REPLACED????? NOooooooooo

Dude,
I am sure you thought about this a lot in the past so you know that if a woman does not want to go out with you because of your size or weight for that matter then they really do not give a hoot about you anyhow. If they don't care about you then the entire relationship is a waste of time.

The best advice I can give you is to be yourself and when the right one comes along she will fall in love with the real you as you will with her hopefully. Just be open and honest with yourself and them if they cant handle it then move on to one that can.

You look to be young still from your picture. You have time on your side. If you get into a LTR with someone then neither of you will look the same as you do now forty years from now anyhow. If you love each other for your minds, thoughts, feelings and not what is on the outside your love will be stronger with time. If you love each other for appearances you will grow apart and end up hurting each other.

I'm pretty fly for a fat guy

Well said.

I've never been dumped for being a 'big' guy... It always made sex better for her!

Some people its all about how attractive the person is thats a fact my view is i would rather date a girl that has a lovely personality and nature.
Its the same old problem people do judge a book by its cover but if they take the time to get to know that person they may find one hell of a catch....give me a heart of gold than a body of a goddess anyday. Anna x

LOL, this thread is funny!