Topic: confused
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Sat 11/28/09 04:39 PM
I don't come on much anymore but just wanted to write about my current situation with someone. I met a man recently who i began to like i was sketchy at first because he is divorced and had two kids. I only say that because i am ninteen and i have never been with anyone in that type of situation but i really started to like him so i gave it a shot. He was very sweet and nice to me and i am not really used to that but lately he just stopped calling and i call but he has to go all of a sudden i'm not going to be completely heartbroken just very disappointed if he decides he doesnt want anything. It's been two months and he was very into the relation ship at first but his interest seems to be dying idk it's happened other times i just learned by now to accept and move on i just kind of was hoping things would turn out different.idk it's just on my mind just wanted to write about it. :)

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Sat 11/28/09 04:41 PM
It happens hun... If you want to avoid the pain, try to keep things in perspective until you have something solid... flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 11/28/09 04:41 PM
I'm sure someone else will come along

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Sat 11/28/09 04:45 PM
Edited by GuardianAngelMan on Sat 11/28/09 04:46 PM
pain and heartbreak are a part of growing up be strong my frind and know that there is better out there for you. flowerforyou

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Sat 11/28/09 04:46 PM
Love stinks!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GluCM_ggMvw

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Sat 11/28/09 04:47 PM
flowerforyou

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Sat 11/28/09 04:49 PM
The best advice I can give is to always take things very slowly and not let your heart get too involved until there is some kind of stability there. I'm sorry you are hurting. flowerforyou

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Sat 11/28/09 04:52 PM
:heart: MANY,many reasons he could be acting this way???
But one thing is for sure,,if you ask him about his why's.
He should be able to tell ya,,,then you won't be dragging this out
Your'll know how he feels,,,THEN do what ya want,,,wink.

IF,,,he is a LOT older than you,,,,it could be NOW,,,,he's feeling he made a mistake with seeing you?? Because of your age?
Like I said,,,their are to many reasons to speculate,w/o knowing.

Just ASK,,,,,,,flowerforyou and good luck..

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Sat 11/28/09 04:53 PM
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Sat 11/28/09 04:58 PM

I don't come on much anymore but just wanted to write about my current situation with someone. I met a man recently who i began to like i was sketchy at first because he is divorced and had two kids. I only say that because i am ninteen and i have never been with anyone in that type of situation but i really started to like him so i gave it a shot. He was very sweet and nice to me and i am not really used to that but lately he just stopped calling and i call but he has to go all of a sudden i'm not going to be completely heartbroken just very disappointed if he decides he doesnt want anything. It's been two months and he was very into the relation ship at first but his interest seems to be dying idk it's happened other times i just learned by now to accept and move on i just kind of was hoping things would turn out different.idk it's just on my mind just wanted to write about it. :)


You are 19. You got so much ahead of you and don't worry you'll see. Don't get dragged down by one guy..move on..you got plenty of opportunities. flowerforyou

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Sat 11/28/09 05:16 PM
Seems to me he either met someone else or was trying to get back with his ex. Or possibly was never seperatted. Just lied to you.

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Sat 11/28/09 05:17 PM

Seems to me he either met someone else or was trying to get back with his ex. Or possibly was never seperatted. Just lied to you.


SHUT UP! Peopl don't lie! noway

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Sat 11/28/09 05:20 PM


Seems to me he either met someone else or was trying to get back with his ex. Or possibly was never seperatted. Just lied to you.


SHUT UP! Peopl don't lie! noway


Dont tell me what to do...lol.