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Topic: Would u get back w/an ex?
Goofball73's photo
Fri 01/08/10 05:34 PM
So, basically, when he lost all that, he also pushed you away. Yes, that is normal for a person to do. But then again, if you really some one, why would you do that? Is it Pride? Or could it have been that he felt you would leave him through that tough time? I don't know, but when you said this, it made me wonder why this happens.

See, if I was with someone and something like that happened, I would need them to be their for me. I feel that shows a strong connection of love for someone when two people can survive tough times. To break it off and go it alone is very difficult, and apparently he hit bottom and came back up. That's great. I just wonder why he felt he couldn't (or shouldn't) have you around during that time.


normalweirdo's photo
Fri 01/08/10 05:39 PM
Congrats to you both, then! I hope you can work through the fact separation was ever necessary. Does seem odd that at a stressful time when people tend to pull together, he pulled away. That would make me a bit cautious.

I'll admit to having longings for certain ex's now and then. There was something really appealing about them in the first place, after all!

Good luck!

GIJane77's photo
Fri 01/08/10 08:01 PM
I never look back. I loved and enjoyed the company of each one of my exes. They made me who I am today. Stronger, healthier, and happy.

Looking forward to a new partner. Variety is the spice of life.

RKISIT's photo
Fri 01/08/10 08:04 PM

:heart: I met this guy on this site....we dated...got engaged...and we just recently broke upbrokenheart ...
He says he still loves me and misses me....If it was true love...do you think getting back together is worth it?
Would you?

Do you ever dream about getting back with an ex? Has there ever been a time where you couldn't sleep or stop thinking about the person?

I'm going on a date tomorrow with him and I'll know if the fire is still there after one kiss!

Opinions appreciated,
Cristina

:banana: P.S> Happy New Year Everyone!!!
theres only one reason i'd get back with an ex..."to get my rocks off" then i'd continue online datingdrinker

Scott3895's photo
Fri 01/08/10 09:21 PM
My last ex, hell fkng no!!!!!!!!! Hot as hell, but nuts, and EXTREMELY JEALOUS, I cannot describe to you the level of jealousy this girl has. One example at a family gathering she would start fights with relatives that would give me a hug!

Dempcey's photo
Fri 01/08/10 09:56 PM
I'm sorry back with who? spock
*Scratches head......*

No Hon, absolutely not. I'm not a big fan of 1 step forward 10 steps back. Not even if I thought the man sincere. My heart doesn't beat like that. Besides I did try this once when I was 25 with a man I loved and knew loved me, but the past just wouldn't go away. We never fought, but the love and lust we had had for one another was dim.


Jennerling's photo
Fri 01/08/10 09:59 PM
no, think about it the whole reason that they are an ex is because it obviously didn't work the first time.noway

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