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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Sun 01/03/10 07:44 AM
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That it is a COMPLETE turn-off to guys when they sit and bash other women around them, I mean are they really that insecure about themselves that the have to say something mean/nasty/or just plain rude? commenting on her clothes, her hair, this or that. GET OVER IT! What gets me is that the women that normally are doing this are FAR from perfect...is it just insecurity? or is it something else?
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Maybe it's jealousey??
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Maybe it's jealousey?? maybe but I'm talking more like when around a group of girls one will point out a complete stranger and say something and the rest are 'ooo' and yada yada and add their own comments....do they really think they are any better than the one they are pointing out? I mean i've seen fashion emergencies and things like that..and extremely obese people...but why do the feel the need to point it out? is it just to make themselves feel better about themselves? |
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Maybe by pointing out what they precieve as someone else's shortfalls it makes them feel better about themselves? Like maybe Hey at least I'm better than that?
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Maybe by pointing out what they precieve as someone else's shortfalls it makes them feel better about themselves? Like maybe Hey at least I'm better than that? that could be...but it seems that at least for me what they are trying to accomplish is the exact opposite...for me when I see girls doing that they become INSTANTLY less attractive... |
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Maybe by pointing out what they precieve as someone else's shortfalls it makes them feel better about themselves? Like maybe Hey at least I'm better than that? that could be...but it seems that at least for me what they are trying to accomplish is the exact opposite...for me when I see girls doing that they become INSTANTLY less attractive... 
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Maybe justified even?.............
 Birds and animals have their mating rituals and if we could understand their language I think we would be shocked at what the onlooking bird would be saying about his or her rival when they lose out to a rival e.g........ God doesn't he/ she looks awful in those downy brown feathers! Human beings are no different to this strange ritual, when they feel threatened, they would lash out in one of the only way they know..... Verbally lambaste their rival. The difference is, these actions can lead to hurt and upset feelings for the reciepient. It is not a very nice ritual. |
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Sometimes its them judging a book by its cover.nasty
 I have a friend and her girlfriend whenever she sees someone she looks them up and down,and she makes it so aware.needless to say she's no friend of mine. 
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Wimmins
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I find it incredibly amusing. Even more so when they do it to their "friends" behind their backs. And they do do it.
But, I'm a female. I would imagine to a guy its very unattractive behavior. |
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Wimmins Ya mean guys don't do that? 
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justified?
 I have a friend who does this over and over and over again...I wouldn't normally hang out with a person like this but she's in my 'friends' circle so to speak...but what I don't get is that other girls seem to jump on board with it....when they normally wouldn't care maybe it is natural..guess i'd rather have an unnatural friend
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Insecurity and jealousy. They're trying to make themselves feel better and sound better to you. Same reason why men bash other men.
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justified? I have a friend who does this over and over and over again...I wouldn't normally hang out with a person like this but she's in my 'friends' circle so to speak...but what I don't get is that other girls seem to jump on board with it....when they normally wouldn't care maybe it is natural..guess i'd rather have an unnatural friend That was said in jest.Don't make me start talking about you to Ruth behind your back! 
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justified? I have a friend who does this over and over and over again...I wouldn't normally hang out with a person like this but she's in my 'friends' circle so to speak...but what I don't get is that other girls seem to jump on board with it....when they normally wouldn't care maybe it is natural..guess i'd rather have an unnatural friend That was said in jest.Don't make me start talking about you to Ruth behind your back! Yeah because once I find out about it it'll be in the Mingle Newsletter for ALL to read! And the truth is irrelevant!
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Yeah because once I find out about it it'll be in the Mingle Newsletter for ALL to read! And the truth is irrelevant! And us girls can (sometimes) add embellishments to the truth 
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justified? I have a friend who does this over and over and over again...I wouldn't normally hang out with a person like this but she's in my 'friends' circle so to speak...but what I don't get is that other girls seem to jump on board with it....when they normally wouldn't care maybe it is natural..guess i'd rather have an unnatural friend That was said in jest.Don't make me start talking about you to Ruth behind your back! jest...sure sure sure....come to think about it...weren't you sitting at the table with us?
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Some women are b!tches, that's why I don't deal with very many of them.
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Some women are b!tches, that's why I don't deal with very many of them. agreed....but it doesn't always come out right away...it's hidden ***** lol |
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If we gals would learn to stick together an let go of petty female chit.. and truly create a sisterhood, we could change our world.
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