I just got the impression that they met, really liked each other and it happened without being discussed or decided, that they simply just clicked and hit it off, and then continued to see each other a couple more times, but now he's busy and she's wondering wtf.


I give up on the interpreting, I just gave the best advice I could think of, that's all.
Hope you all have a good night

You have it right. We met for a one night stand. But apparently we hit it off. We talked nearly everyday for over a month before we decided to meet again. Then we started dating. I have seen him twice since we started dating on december 3rd. And he made contact with me first everytime we talked. So i mean i know he likes me. Its just difficult not seeing him like i want. Plus sex seems to be the main topic. I spoke with him about it and we are better now. It has nothing to do with the fact that all we wanted was a one night stand. When you step up the game to dating it changes things.

I think when you have a one night stand and then decide you want to switch the rules...I don't think its going to work. I think if you decide its just sex, then you have to agree that nothing more is going to come out of this relationship. This is why I don't agree with "FWB." I truly believe that someone always gets hurt because they always want more then just sex.
I think you when you have this type of relationship you have to wonder how many other people are they sleeping with? Does anyone ever stop and consider that? HMM probably not!!

You only live 45 minutes away from each other, yet have only seen each other three times in a month? Something is a bit off there.

I work odd hours. And he works set hours. I could be working when he is off work or i am off when he working. And we wont spend the gas for anything less than two hours time together.