A.) You get a really beautiful home, fancy cars, vacations,
all the money you could ever want..no money shortages,
no stress, and you can pretty much have anything you want.
Your partner is a jerk, you can't stand him/her. But the
sex is still good. (it's angry sex)

B.) You get a modest home, needs are met, vacation once a year,
no major stress. No toys, no extravagance. Your settled in
and comfortable with your partner, mostly just content. You
really just don't have the energy to seek out the
excitement that's gone, but it's alright.

C.) You get a camper at the KOA. It's small, a bit run down
and you use a public shower. Bills aren't much so your able
to cover them, not much left to do anything else. Your
crazy about your partner, you still melt when he/she touches
you. You want a home and some fun...but your crazy in love
and don't want to be any where but with this wonderful
person.

Where would you rather be?

C.With lego's

I'll take C. Been through the other two, and it's just not worth it.

I have lived all three

in order

c
B
A

I think I like B

A was hard with 4 kids-they didnt have much of anything-Their dad and I were killer in love but it didnt last and the kids and I were left poor

C I worked myself up to that-Long and hard journey to give my kids everything they could ever want and to show them a women could do it

B but I think B is the way to go-Just enough of everything

why with legos?

He's not 18 yet

Awww, ok, I see. He glad to be home?

Dang, why is there never an option to just stay alone..lol.

I dont want to be with someone with whom I am not happy and its hard to maintain happiness when one is struggling or not sure of the love they will get in return but,,


IF C involves a MUTUAL feeling of 'crazy about your partner', than I choose C.

fair enough...

option D - You live alone, each have your own places and just hang out when your in the mood.

Yes, C is a mutual feeling, that's why you stay.

In that case, C, absolutely. Id give a lifetime of treasures to have that ONE person I was crazy about that was also just as crazy about me.



In that case, C, absolutely. Id give a lifetime of treasures to have that ONE person I was crazy about that was also just as crazy about me.

C. ... When I'm that happy 'another biz enterprise' is sure to quickly follow!

The sky is the limit when ya have your muse! Money quickly follows the constancy of joy in my experience ...

Besides, I REALLY like livin' rough on the land the very best anyway ...

... I'd just make sure to have the 2nd home teepee in the woods!

yeah cause if ya have your own places and your not married ya can't have sex.

lol, I like it,,,,right on point

just messing with ya sistah...my little way of apologizing.

Lo' is kewl like that ... ... that's just how she rolls ...

eh, I'm just a big giant walking, beating heart. It's pitiful..
I wanna be a biotch.. I really do!! Damn it!!

Sistah, you are in my tribe fo shure! ...

... Big ole hearts wanderin' the earth w/ hands and feet...

Kinda like hearts on wheels! ...

... And the hands only slap in the name of One Love, always gently!

Then the feet stand their solid ground on the rock of PURE LOVE! ...

(... I think I just said the ole REAL hippies truly remain, in other words! ... )

you have nothing to apologize for, I respect you always whether we always are in agreement or not,,,,you were passionate but respectful

I am sorry for getting you riled, those topics can get pretty deep and personal,,:)

eh, I just shouldn't go into them. I am passionate , yes..that does not excuse bad manners. That is NOT the kind of person I am..I think it was the comparison of the donkey.....thing, that got me going.

Anyway..I have huge respect for the sisterhood. Never a good reason to ever rattle the sisterhood!!

really..nothing wrong with being content, so many are miserable, content can be a good thing I suppose.