Topic: You would think after a certen age...
TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/14/10 12:33 PM
That some people would know what they want or even looking for as a partner. I come to find out that there is not many that do and if they do and that includs me.

Wouldn't that mean they're being honest with themselves, honest on who they are and what they'er looking for. At the same time though, people tend to lie to themselves, ignore whats in front of them and keep picking the ones that never work out.


So at a certen age. Wouldn't you think it's time to grow up?



Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 02/14/10 12:36 PM
people think they know

and are usually wrong

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/14/10 12:36 PM
I don't know about grow up..hope I never do that...I know exactly what I want!!!

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Sun 02/14/10 12:40 PM

That some people would know what they want or even looking for as a partner. I come to find out that there is not many that do and if they do and that includs me.

Wouldn't that mean they're being honest with themselves, honest on who they are and what they'er looking for. At the same time though, people tend to lie to themselves, ignore whats in front of them and keep picking the ones that never work out.


So at a certen age. Wouldn't you think it's time to grow up?





Ha ?noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 02/14/10 01:14 PM
To each his own......

And the world keeps turnin..:heart:

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/14/10 03:41 PM
Edited by TheShadow on Sun 02/14/10 03:44 PM

I don't know about grow up..hope I never do that...I know exactly what I want!!!


What I mean about, it's time to grow up. Is stop lying to yourself and face reality for what it is. I don't mean stop enjoying life:smile:

I use to ignor the red flags and that's why I ended up where I have in the past. So today I chose to be honest with myself, and when I meet somone, I ask myself is this what I want. I don't let the attraction tack over. Attraction was my biggest downfall, the old being a guy thing. So it makes me wonder how many people have done this and still are, but don't know there doing it. Or they do, but chose to ignor it.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/14/10 03:49 PM


I don't know about grow up..hope I never do that...I know exactly what I want!!!


What I mean about, it's time to grow up. Is stop lying to yourself and face reality for what it is. I don't mean stop enjoying life.

I use to ignor the red flags and that's why I ended up where I have in the past. So today I chose to be honest with myself, and when I meet somone. I ask myself is this what I want and I don't let the attraction tack over. Attraction was my biggest downfall, the old being a guy thing.[So it make me wonder how many people have done this and still are, but don't know there doing it. Or they do, but chose to ignor it.b]


Well there at to be some attraction at first...Some know what they want, some are still figuring it out I suppose.

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:06 PM



I don't know about grow up..hope I never do that...I know exactly what I want!!!


What I mean about, it's time to grow up. Is stop lying to yourself and face reality for what it is. I don't mean stop enjoying life.

I use to ignor the red flags and that's why I ended up where I have in the past. So today I chose to be honest with myself, and when I meet somone. I ask myself is this what I want and I don't let the attraction tack over. Attraction was my biggest downfall, the old being a guy thing.[So it make me wonder how many people have done this and still are, but don't know there doing it. Or they do, but chose to ignor it.b]


Well there at to be some attraction at first...Some know what they want, some are still figuring it out I suppose.


I wish more have figured it out:smile:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:11 PM
A time and reason for all things...

bedlum1's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:12 PM
this to shall pass...i find its best to quit worrying/musing over others and enjoy being me....sooner or later one that has come to the point i have in life&understanding will come along....its all gooddrinker

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:18 PM

this to shall pass...i find its best to quit worrying/musing over others and enjoy being me....sooner or later one that has come to the point i have in life&understanding will come along....its all gooddrinker


I don't think it will ever pass, but it does get better as time goes along.

As for me, i'm not worried about it. Just was throwing out a topic and see where it went from there. drinker

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:33 PM
I don't wanna grow up, I'm a Toys R Us kid..........:banana:

bedlum1's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:36 PM
i like loony toons and sponge bob:tongue:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:40 PM
I want hot aromatherapy baths and a nap every day...happy

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:40 PM

i like loony toons and sponge bob:tongue:


Me too!

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 02/14/10 05:41 PM

I want hot aromatherapy baths and a nap every day...happy


Me too!

TheShadow's photo
Mon 02/15/10 10:36 AM

I want hot aromatherapy baths and a nap every day...happy



What we want, and what we get are two different things:tongue: