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Topic: what say you?
TxsSun's photo
Sun 02/21/10 01:55 PM

It depends on their situations..I am in a position where I could be the one to make such a trip, and actually I would love to get out of my town for a minute. I don't think it should be expected, there shouldn't be any expectations..


I agree drinker

misswright's photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:09 PM
Have truck, will travel. Born road tripper.shades

skydancingA's photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:15 PM
When you want to be with someone, does ANYTHING else matter?

My man I met on here is set to visit me, first time, in March.
He is about 1000 miles away.
He said he would have walked to get to me.
I said the same.
But he flies and I don't.
Easy choice :-)
But I would have found a way.
In a New York minute.

no photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:20 PM

When you want to be with someone, does ANYTHING else matter?



Amen! drinker

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:24 PM
You come to me baby..

You come to me!!!!!:heart:

misstina2's photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:53 PM
flowerforyou I enjoy traveling flowerforyou the world is for me to see thats adds more excitement for me:heart:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:54 PM

When you want to be with someone, does ANYTHING else matter?




So true!!

no photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:55 PM

You come to me baby..

You come to me!!!!!:heart:


drinker

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 02/21/10 02:57 PM
Me thinks whatever is comfy with both parties JMO

no photo
Sun 02/21/10 03:02 PM

Me thinks whatever is comfy with both parties JMO


Totally agree flowerforyou

Jess642's photo
Sun 02/21/10 03:47 PM

:heart: What's your opinion on a first meeting long distance should the man be expected to travel to meet a woman?:heart:


For me specifically....NO!


Don't bother....don't contemplate it, don't even consider it....


cause it ain't gonna happen...


It's my service to mankind....rofl

s1owhand's photo
Sun 02/21/10 03:51 PM
rofl

OK - But don't come to MY place laugh
Better keep it on neutral territory.

rofl

Jess642's photo
Sun 02/21/10 03:55 PM

rofl

OK - But don't come to MY place laugh
Better keep it on neutral territory.

rofl



pitchfork

rampantlovebunny's photo
Sun 02/21/10 06:47 PM
Edited by rampantlovebunny on Sun 02/21/10 06:53 PM
I look at it from the big picture.

Im a firm believer of 50/50.

As long as the first meeting is in a public place in a safe environment, then I don't see why it should matter.

Does it really matter who goes to see who?

Years ago I would have said YES the man should make the effort. times have changed, women fought for equality, many women do not like a man picking up the tab for anything, and either pay themselves, or go 50/50.

so in this case I think there is no harm in the woman also making an effort to travel to a man.

Im sure this debate could go on and on, i see the point of the old fashioned way of things, but I see the other side of this day and age.

two people (man and woman), talk, arrange together and if happy go for it I say. man goes to woman, woman goes to man, both meet in a neutral place, it doesnt matter

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