Topic: etiquette..
msharmony's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:12 PM
so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?

carnie's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:18 PM
LOL well least you know what they want :) better there up front then to pretend to be a gentlemen :)

CatsLoveMe's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:19 PM

so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?


Okay, I need some background, what prompted you to ask this question? Just curious, don't read too much into it. From the question you seem to be asking, I guess alot of guys will cut to the chase rather than play the game. Maybe they think they have nothing to lose. I DO NOT feel this way, but I happen to know some horn dogs that do. It's a sad lonely desperate world sometimes, and I just happen to be an observer.

no photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:20 PM
well at least im a gentleman *burps and scratches butt*bigsmile

msharmony's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:22 PM


so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?


Okay, I need some background, what prompted you to ask this question? Just curious, don't read too much into it. From the question you seem to be asking, I guess alot of guys will cut to the chase rather than play the game. Maybe they think they have nothing to lose. I DO NOT feel this way, but I happen to know some horn dogs that do. It's a sad lonely desperate world sometimes, and I just happen to be an observer.



Im prompted, because nine out of ten incoming message thingies I accept are from a guy who will do just that. They say hi, how are you doing, and then start asking outrageous stuff like what type of lover you are or how big your breasts are or if you are intimidated by a well hung man,,,,stuff like that

the numbers of men who think like this is just offsetting and disappointing to me at the moment,, I guess I have been out of the 'available' life for too long

CatsLoveMe's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:29 PM



so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?


Okay, I need some background, what prompted you to ask this question? Just curious, don't read too much into it. From the question you seem to be asking, I guess alot of guys will cut to the chase rather than play the game. Maybe they think they have nothing to lose. I DO NOT feel this way, but I happen to know some horn dogs that do. It's a sad lonely desperate world sometimes, and I just happen to be an observer.



Im prompted, because nine out of ten incoming message thingies I accept are from a guy who will do just that. They say hi, how are you doing, and then start asking outrageous stuff like what type of lover you are or how big your breasts are or if you are intimidated by a well hung man,,,,stuff like that

the numbers of men who think like this is just offsetting and disappointing to me at the moment,, I guess I have been out of the 'available' life for too long


Msharmony, I really hope you'll consider me a friend someday. But you need a mind first, someone you can connect with on an intellectual level, and a spiritual level. After that, all the rest is gravy. I am honored and humbled to have known you, harmony. Please, don't let these little low brow dweebs get to you. Know what you want, and demand nothing less, only then you will be happy.:heart: flowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:31 PM




so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?


Okay, I need some background, what prompted you to ask this question? Just curious, don't read too much into it. From the question you seem to be asking, I guess alot of guys will cut to the chase rather than play the game. Maybe they think they have nothing to lose. I DO NOT feel this way, but I happen to know some horn dogs that do. It's a sad lonely desperate world sometimes, and I just happen to be an observer.



Im prompted, because nine out of ten incoming message thingies I accept are from a guy who will do just that. They say hi, how are you doing, and then start asking outrageous stuff like what type of lover you are or how big your breasts are or if you are intimidated by a well hung man,,,,stuff like that

the numbers of men who think like this is just offsetting and disappointing to me at the moment,, I guess I have been out of the 'available' life for too long


Msharmony, I really hope you'll consider me a friend someday. But you need a mind first, someone you can connect with on an intellectual level, and a spiritual level. After that, all the rest is gravy. I am honored and humbled to have known you, harmony. Please, don't let these little low brow dweebs get to you. Know what you want, and demand nothing less, only then you will be happy.:heart: flowerforyou



thank you cats,,, much appreciated,,,:smile:

Etrain's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:33 PM
drool drool So...what are you wearing right now Ms Harmonydrool drool

msharmony's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:36 PM

drool drool So...what are you wearing right now Ms Harmonydrool drool



Im gonna guess by reading your posts through the months,, that this is your sense of humor,,,,, Ill just pinch you at the moment,,,lol

seriously though,,,,where are the ladies and gentlemen of this crazy world? STEP UP AND BE COUNTED...maybe we can form a 'special etiquette tea party" ?

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:38 PM

so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?


I'm thinking it's "online" people irl don't typically do that b/c they'll get slapped.. Some grow gonads when online..

msharmony's photo
Fri 04/02/10 01:43 PM


so,, what is it that makes SO many men feel it is completely appropriate to ask personal/sexual type questions the very FIRST time they talk to you,,,,,?


good grief,,,I wish etiquette were more a priority in our culture again...what was so terrible about men being gentlemen and females being ladies?


I'm thinking it's "online" people irl don't typically do that b/c they'll get slapped.. Some grow gonads when online..


good point,, I have YET to have an experience like that face to face,,,,