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Topic: what could i do
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Wed 04/14/10 08:03 PM


Look dude. You do realize that getting a chick is about two things.....appearance and attitude? Appearance isn't about having the perfect body, or a high paying job. It does require good hygiene, but mostly when I say appearance I am referring to you being comfortable with how you look. How you dress. A lot of times, people try to dress like something they aren't just to impress someone. That doesn't work in the end. Attitude is...well...if you are a goofy dude like me, then you rock it goofystyle. You have to like who you are, and believe in the things that make you the person you are. If a chick can't like those things about ya, then she aint worth the time.


You definitely rock it goofstyle! My hats off to you!


Why thank ya! blushing

The check is in the mail.:wink: laugh

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Wed 04/14/10 08:19 PM

Look dude. You do realize that getting a chick is about two things.....appearance and attitude? Appearance isn't about having the perfect body, or a high paying job. It does require good hygiene, but mostly when I say appearance I am referring to you being comfortable with how you look. How you dress. A lot of times, people try to dress like something they aren't just to impress someone. That doesn't work in the end. Attitude is...well...if you are a goofy dude like me, then you rock it goofystyle. You have to like who you are, and believe in the things that make you the person you are. If a chick can't like those things about ya, then she aint worth the time.


:thumbsup:

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 04/14/10 08:26 PM

devil Stalk them...they like itdevil


True story! :thumbsup:

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 04/14/10 08:31 PM

to the people who gave real advice thank you i'll work on it and i really don't smile because i feel like if i have a broken smile.....but i will try though...


If you don't smile, from the inside, and exude happiness then you will not catch the attention of happy person. If you are dejected then you may not attract anyone at all but chances are, if you do, it will be a person as burdened as you.

You have to be centered within yourself before you can expect to find a person to compliment your life.

Fix yourself then you will be open to attracting a great person. :thumbsup:

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Wed 04/14/10 09:41 PM


Look dude. You do realize that getting a chick is about two things.....appearance and attitude? Appearance isn't about having the perfect body, or a high paying job. It does require good hygiene, but mostly when I say appearance I am referring to you being comfortable with how you look. How you dress. A lot of times, people try to dress like something they aren't just to impress someone. That doesn't work in the end. Attitude is...well...if you are a goofy dude like me, then you rock it goofystyle. You have to like who you are, and believe in the things that make you the person you are. If a chick can't like those things about ya, then she aint worth the time.


You definitely rock it goofstyle! My hats off to you!

Im sorry I have no advice for you as I seem to have the same problem, But I do have a great deal of compassion for your situation. Letting people know you from inside the box is hard, but it sounds like you are doing the things you need to do. It will happen, the question is will you let it? Good luck my brother.

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Wed 04/14/10 10:06 PM

to the people who gave real advice thank you i'll work on it and i really don't smile because i feel like if i have a broken smile.....but i will try though...
hey man,,i wanted to let you know that i understand what your going through and people just don't care anymore,,about us
or you I mean,,i can't get girls to even look my directions let alone ask one out,,i feel helpless and to the end of my ropes.
what can guys like us do,,tomake people understand that WE ARE PEOPLE TO?





OK,,,ALL OF THAT WAS BULL SHlT OK,,,MINE TO YOU BECAUSE
THIS,,and ALL THAT ABOVE IS YOUR PROPBLEMS..

NO-ONE IS GOING TO RESPECT YOU,,UNTIL YOU RESPECT YOURSELF!!

NO LADIES ARE GOING TO BE KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR TO ASK YOU OUT.


Bacause YOU have to MAKE that happen,,YOU HAPPEN..

How,,,,START by BEING CONFIDENT IN YOU,,and YOUR WORDS,,BE POWERFUL WHEN SPEAKING TO EVERYONE...DON't mumble,,,don't half azz speak,,PUT IT OUT THERE,,,ENERGIZED excited,,,,SO THEY LOOK AT YOU.
NO,,NOT SCREAMING,,BUT VERY DERECT AND EYE CONTACT WITH THEM..


GO BUY A NEW OUTFIT,,,THIS TIME ASYOUR LOOKING AT WHAT TO BUY,,,ASK A LADY CLOSE TO YOU,,,
A,,EXCUSE ME MIAM,,MISS,,I WAS WANDERING IF YOU COULD TELL ME YOUR OPINIONS OF THIS SHIRT HERE,,SEE ITS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I SHOPPED
AND I'M NOT UP ON WHATS HIP RIGHT NOW,,,,DO YOU THINK ,,,,THIS,,WOULD LOOK GOOD ON ME???
MOST,,,UNLESS THEIR EIGHTY,,WILL HELP YOU,,and tell you their opinions of it,,then DO THE SAME by taking your shorts or pants ,,,with your shirt picked out,,and wonder a bit with them both in hand till ya see a cute girl,,and go into,,man,,I really don't think THESE GO TOGETHER,,what do you think??
IF you get to where YOU can do THIS,,,then you have made your first CROSS over into making new conversations with strangers,,,
AND YOUR REALLY NOT ALONE with feeling odd TRYING to talk to a stranger as many suffer shyness,,,
You can DO THIS with EVERY CONCEPT OF BEING OUT IN THE PUBLIC
Fast food,,ASK A LADY THERE ABOUT IF SHE'S EVER TRIED THEIR CHICKEN
EGG HAMMY WHIZIT,,lol BuT you see what I am saying,,,
YOU HAVE TO BREAK OUT OF YOUR SHELL and become OUT-GOING,,and confident in YOU,,YOUR CAPIBLENESS OF TALKING WITH ANYONE..
my typing is as BOLD as what I wanted you to read in with in your mind,,,,BOLD and POWERFUL,,to be asertive and strong in making OTHERS ,,,WANT TO HEAR YOU,,,Want to talk back to you,,
be interesting and speak above room noise,,,NOT WITHIN IT,,,right EVEN WITH THE NOISE AROUND YOU,,wherever your at..
I hope this helps as I have just given you two hours of my sleep time,,,lolAND,,,MY CHECK BETTER BE IN THE MAIL BY NOON TOMORROW!!
hey man,,have a great night and a good time on here,,PEACE LOVE AND BE REAL....drinker

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