today 5 houses from me a horrific murder took place and they are saying it also involved a baby....
are people actually that hopless and desperate, to kill others when they are adraid of loosing it all?
do people not understand that it is just life and when things happen to you your supposed to learn from it, grow from it, carry on to the next experience with lessons learned?...
sorry if this is all over the place i am a very empathic person and i feel others sorrow and pain and it can be quite disturbing to deal with sometimes

yep, and as more and more get more and more confused, and they will...it will get worse. Unfortunately

i wish i could make people see things the way i do.....
i banged my head against the wall for 35 years, i learned the hard way....but i learned... and now that i see things for what they are it becomes harder to find someone like minded when so many are close minded and seemingly hopeless

pressure affects people differently

who we really are is being revealed each day...

on tangent -- some old dude shot & killed some young dude because his dog pissed on his lawn.


most people don't understand why he did what he did & some never will....but more & more people are starting to understand..... -- dog's kept pissing on his lawn, day in day out 15+ years...pressure got to him and he snapped....i am certain we will hear of more people that snap..even though they gave warnings...

roko

The biggest problem comes from people not being able to keep up and not being able to take a step back from the big picture.

Some are really brainwashed and fear drives them. I have heard, some banker shot himself in the head, because he lost 8 million bucks..so what he only had left was a "good for nothing" 1 million.

Ouch Bedlum..
And when it is so close to your own
safety zone it is hard to explain
to yourself.

Life, and people are so fragile.
But when they lose hope I guess they
feel free to hurt just about anyone.
Very hard on the empathetic.
Consider this a cyber hug.

all life is...is a learning experience....we are meant to learn and to go until the day we die...if people dont look at things that way they never learn & to deny yourself that learning experience is to deny your humanity...
nothing is good or bad it is just another experience to learn and grow from...some experiences hurt, are uncomfortable , painful and sad, and others are joyful, comfortable, filled with love or ease...THIS IS LIFE that is all it is.....if people looked at things that way therd would be a lot less bs going on.....and me trying to show people this is like running into a brick wall most of the time......

you have detached yourself from the drama in life,....life is not going down the toilet when it rains or shooting up flowers when the sun shines,..all life is good,..because behind every shadow is a bit of sun and behind every bit of sun is a shadow

They are learning bedlum, just not the way you want them to. Each is here for that learning..throw in karmic debt and all have an experience that is uniquely their own. It's frustrating to see and feel so many in such pain..all we can do is continue to love. We can not make anyone believe the way we do..everyone gets to work their life out in the manner that gives them the growth that their essence requires. The best thing we can do for others is to keep our own vibration levels as high as possible.

it was a baby
i try to harden myself but i cannot...
the amount of empathy i feel for people in genuin pain is great....i can feel negative energy LITERALY...i guess you can say not only do i wear my heart on my sleeve but i feel what others do and this world is full of negativity and misery...i think society is addicted to it(not all but a lot of society that is)....
i broke that chain myself and as a result i get to feel genuinly for others and it is heartbreaking at time

I understand...I have become a hermit because of such things. It is challenging.

I understand how you feel Jeff. I admire the fact that you choose to look for the positive in life no matter how frustrating that can be at times. I believe that there is nothing so tough in life that we can't overcome. Some days may not go the way we choose but the great thing is that every morning we get a brand new one to make things better. If by example we can change one person's way of thinking then we have been successful. I also believe in the concept of pay it forward. It may be idealistic on my part but sometimes just giving a stranger a smile can change their day and their attitude.

Would it also be true, that those who lack any empathy continue to drive on and act like nothing is happening, since they couldn't care less what else is going on beside their own little bubble?

I still can't figure out how badly I have to lack all empathy and feelings to have 1 billion dollars in my personal account and not share a penny of it, not even to my very near surrounding...like the street I live in and the road is full of potholes and my neighbor being foreclosed on. I don't think I could sleep well being like that, but hey what do I know..right?

I work in a local emergency room and always question what could be so bad in life that so many people come in from committing suicide. I have seen some of the prettiest girls doing this. I also cant fathom all the shootings/stabbing we see. Mostly people trying to get a few dollars. unbelievable

maybe the apocolypse will be when there are more of us that feel the need to give up, than those who try to carry on and learn.

its sad like that poor little girl that killed her self because of the girls at school tortureing her. as far as suicides in those cases if a person already feels bad about who they are, it cirtainly doesnt help when others try to justify those feelings.
i think personally those girls should be tried for murder.
they may not have put the noose around her neck but, charles manson didnt technically kill anyone either.

Part of the experience that you chose in this lifetime was to include a incident like this. Youre emapthy is a great gift and you know what you need to gain from this experience, and will remember it in time. We choose what we are to learn in this lifetime, and when it gets too difficult you must turn to God or Whomever represents for you. You do this to learn from the pain of the experience, to grow from it. The baby chose the experience of a death of such, maybe it was on one of it's last cycles or first, do beleive that it is all interconnected. I wanted to talk to you personally about this but am blocked. Continue your growth, emotions hinder, as you grow you will discover this among many other things are all entangled on your own personal growth.

i am a spiritual person but (a god) has nothing to do with it...i do not believe in this worlds concept of a god....but thank you anyways

I'm curious, what do you beleive?