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Topic: how will everything works?
rian09able's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:31 AM
:heart: ..so just some question..you can make advices..

right now i met a guy here..and we are so deeply inlove with each other but unfortunately we are very far from each other..do you think things will work for us??and stone trust is played here...

but actually we just met yesterday..and we chat all night yesterday..then there are things we like with each other..and its like we know each other for a long time..then when we said some sweet word..its like my heart is beating very fast that it might explode explode or overheat..love ..

actually im not new here in this site and not new to chat with this people..but this is the very first time that ive felt it..feeling like im floating on air..or just too high because of him..
he's kind,sweet and very gentleman..we have same age..(20)..
and his very different from some people i meet here who just want some sex on cam..slaphead (w/c i hate the most)..pitchfork rant
scaredbut im a little bit scared coz this is my first time to enter a very long distance relationship..

another thing we get each other's phone # and now..if we are not online..he call and we text each other..

do you think our relationship will last??until we meet each other?
just say what you're thinking about it..and im open to it..

Alloguvnah's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:37 AM
whooa. slow down there. long distance can work and i'm a witness to that many times over due to some of my acquaintances success with their now spouses. its all about efforts and connections. but "one day at a time" is the phrase that will ring truest in this situation. just saying

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:39 AM
cool advise you take things slow

rian09able's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:48 AM

cool advise you take things slow



thanks..but how?

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:52 AM
Well get to know him more your likes dislike etc futuristic goals family values i have seen where distant relationships works

rian09able's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:53 AM

whooa. slow down there. long distance can work and i'm a witness to that many times over due to some of my acquaintances success with their now spouses. its all about efforts and connections. but "one day at a time" is the phrase that will ring truest in this situation. just saying



but do you think in our age things will work out??..

Goatherding's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:56 AM
It would be a good idea for you to cool your jets! A good friend of mine refers to a long distance relationship as "Geographically ugly". There's been a few women I've found quite charming but they're on the other side of the country so I regrettfully pass them by because long distance almost always is doomed to failure.

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 05/11/10 04:56 AM
Yes why not everybody is different do you believe in miracles

rian09able's photo
Tue 05/11/10 05:03 AM
maybe people just have different outlook in life.. and different beliefs in every case..

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 05/11/10 05:07 AM

It would be a good idea for you to cool your jets! A good friend of mine refers to a long distance relationship as "Geographically ugly". There's been a few women I've found quite charming but they're on the other side of the country so I regrettfully pass them by because long distance almost always is doomed to failure.
Stop been stereotype Long distance do work like any other relationships it also have faults that i do agree

rian09able's photo
Tue 05/11/10 05:20 AM

Well get to know him more your likes dislike etc futuristic goals family values i have seen where distant relationships works


hmm,so,.from our talks..he’s actually fresh from a breakup like me month ago he was fooled by his ex gf and I broke up with my ex..
then when we share outlooks in life faves likes dislikes,blahblahblah our talks is so alive that its seems that we known each other for a long time..just like we know how to tickles each other attitude..or how to get each others tickles..just like that..and so far we already plan about for us..whose gonna visit first..when..how..just like that..and the most happy part of it..is even we are new to this kind of relationship..we already talk about plans in having a family..love love blushing blushing

rian09able's photo
Tue 05/11/10 05:26 AM


It would be a good idea for you to cool your jets! A good friend of mine refers to a long distance relationship as "Geographically ugly". There's been a few women I've found quite charming but they're on the other side of the country so I regrettfully pass them by because long distance almost always is doomed to failure.
Stop been stereotype Long distance do work like any other relationships it also have faults that i do agree


i agree also with you..just like my godmom..he met his husband in the net..its not that im copying her..but maybe a coincident that i feel something from a stranger... anywaysofftopic just im saying my godmom finally lives with his husband(the one he met in the net) and now live peacefully and hapilly in canada now..maybe its just how you carry the relationship and care for it

horzman's photo
Wed 05/12/10 02:16 AM
Well, first, slow it down.... and get to know him better, and make sure he feels the same way about you

Before you get too involved emotionally, answer this question from me, either one of you is willing to move to where the other one is.

if you think he's the one, make an effort to meet him, first time I would suggest that you bring him to you, that shows you that he’s serious and committed, and you have better control of the situation if anything goes wrong. 2nd time maybe you can visit him, see the kind of life style he lives, and spend some times with his friends, you may learn much more about him from his friends and family.

good luck

benji2929's photo
Wed 05/12/10 04:17 AM
what ever your desire & trust in your self which is the main importin's trust in your self

rian09able's photo
Fri 05/21/10 11:12 AM

Well, first, slow it down.... and get to know him better, and make sure he feels the same way about you

Before you get too involved emotionally, answer this question from me, either one of you is willing to move to where the other one is.

if you think he's the one, make an effort to meet him, first time I would suggest that you bring him to you, that shows you that he’s serious and committed, and you have better control of the situation if anything goes wrong. 2nd time maybe you can visit him, see the kind of life style he lives, and spend some times with his friends, you may learn much more about him from his friends and family.

good luck


uhm.. i think he is..and now..we have some plans..and he's going to visit me here in my place..then after that..i will visit him ther to know his family..by december his having his vacation here in our place..and off coourse..with continuous contacts..

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 05/21/10 02:14 PM

whooa. slow down there. long distance can work and i'm a witness to that many times over due to some of my acquaintances success with their now spouses. its all about efforts and connections. but "one day at a time" is the phrase that will ring truest in this situation. just saying


This. Quoted for truth.smokin

rian09able's photo
Wed 06/09/10 09:11 AM


whooa. slow down there. long distance can work and i'm a witness to that many times over due to some of my acquaintances success with their now spouses. its all about efforts and connections. but "one day at a time" is the phrase that will ring truest in this situation. just saying


This. Quoted for truth.smokin


uhm..actually to day is our 1st month!!drinker :banana: drinks smitten
thanks for some advices

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 06/09/10 09:17 AM



whooa. slow down there. long distance can work and i'm a witness to that many times over due to some of my acquaintances success with their now spouses. its all about efforts and connections. but "one day at a time" is the phrase that will ring truest in this situation. just saying


This. Quoted for truth.smokin


uhm..actually to day is our 1st month!!drinker :banana: drinks smitten
thanks for some advices


Cool, hope it works out for you.

misstina2's photo
Wed 06/09/10 11:03 AM
flowerforyou I think its best to meet as soon as you can otherwise you can get caught up in a relationship and it may end up that you never meet this personflowerforyou You would be smart to webcam so you both can see each other flowerforyou

freeonthree's photo
Wed 06/09/10 12:00 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Wed 06/09/10 12:04 PM

:heart: ..so just some question..you can make advices..

right now i met a guy here..and we are so deeply inlove with each other but unfortunately we are very far from each other..do you think things will work for us??and stone trust is played here...

but actually we just met yesterday..and we chat all night yesterday..then there are things we like with each other..and its like we know each other for a long time..then when we said some sweet word..its like my heart is beating very fast that it might explode explode or overheat..love ..

actually im not new here in this site and not new to chat with this people..but this is the very first time that ive felt it..feeling like im floating on air..or just too high because of him..
he's kind,sweet and very gentleman..we have same age..(20)..
and his very different from some people i meet here who just want some sex on cam..slaphead (w/c i hate the most)..pitchfork rant
scaredbut im a little bit scared coz this is my first time to enter a very long distance relationship..

another thing we get each other's phone # and now..if we are not online..he call and we text each other..

do you think our relationship will last??until we meet each other?
just say what you're thinking about it..and im open to it..


I went thru that same deal, and went a few years thinking we could eventually be together someday, until I woke up. You'll be alot better off to keep your options open, and just be friends for now.
That will give you more time to get to know each other better, and then if you don't find love in your own back yard, you can always try to find a way to be together. Don't put unsurities in your path to happiness. You may trip over them and fall in a puddle of regret.

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