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Topic: Going no where
PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/07/10 06:19 PM
The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 07/07/10 06:21 PM

What I have been running into lately is endless messaging back & forth, I'm the type that wants to move on to talking on the phone & date or after a few messages meet up. Now after a few messages I tell them that I sense this going no where & don't want to waste any more time. I don't mean to sound rude, I just like to stop bs before it drags on. Does anyone else run into this?


Just end that shhhiiit..that's all. Tell her to make the next step or this is all there is to it. Wanna be a penpal or a facebook buddy or whatever, if you she isn't keeping up, then it's time to look for someone else.

Seakolony's photo
Wed 07/07/10 06:23 PM

The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:

I gave someone my number once and the fu cker would not stop freaking calling it was incessant.....I am very wary about it.....I would probably rather meet someone in a public place than give my number.....phone stalking not good...psycho text messages.....

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 07/07/10 06:42 PM

The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:03 PM


The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:




You know me to well bigsmile

Goofball73's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:14 PM
I recently had a woman tell me I was moving way to slow. So, I listened....and progressed right into phone sex.:tongue: laugh laugh laugh

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:22 PM


The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:


I thought that was a southern thing. My daddy was full blown, 6.6 Texas cowboy and that was a regular idiom at our house. :thumbsup:

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:22 PM

I recently had a woman tell me I was moving way to slow. So, I listened....and progressed right into phone sex.:tongue: laugh laugh laugh

huh

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Wed 07/07/10 07:25 PM



The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:


I thought that was a southern thing. My daddy was full blown, 6.6 Texas cowboy and that was a regular idiom at our house. :thumbsup:


It is also used here quite a bit in Toronto

justme659's photo
Wed 07/07/10 07:36 PM




I gave someone my number once and the fu cker would not stop freaking calling it was incessant.....I am very wary about it.....I would probably rather meet someone in a public place than give my number.....phone stalking not good...psycho text messages.....


See, this is why I do not give out my phone number. When one of us is ready to talk on the phone, I will call him and block my number till I feel safe.


freeonthree's photo
Thu 07/08/10 12:11 AM



Hummmm well if they are local then I agree with ya a hundred percent. I'm all for if it is local lets meet up and see if we might want to make a official date or not. Not into all the emails when they live within driving distance... :thumbsup:

Now if they are in a different state then no I don't agree. To many not being truthful out there. And it takes me a while before I will call them seems the ones I have they have no idea what they want...noway



Yes mine are local, they tell me they are interested, want to get to know me more & yet in their messages there's nothing to keep the conversation going, even after I suggest swapping phone #'s or meeting up, it's like yes or no because I can't waste time.


Honestly I have had a few guys that heck I suggested we meet. I mean we live within less then and hour of each other they acted as if they were interested. But then put me off when I suggested meeting in person.....Sooooooooooo what did I do see ya sorry I don't have time for those kind of games. Hell only asking to meet up for coffee,tea or soft drink not asking for a 5 course meal shshshs...waving


You deserve the 5 course meal bigsmile

freeonthree's photo
Thu 07/08/10 12:54 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Thu 07/08/10 12:55 AM

What I have been running into lately is endless messaging back & forth, I'm the type that wants to move on to talking on the phone & date or after a few messages meet up. Now after a few messages I tell them that I sense this going no where & don't want to waste any more time. I don't mean to sound rude, I just like to stop bs before it drags on. Does anyone else run into this?


All my lady friends here are too far away, so I couldn't meet them even if I wanted too. Heck, if it's on your dime, I can't imagine why anyone would be opposed to at least a phone chat. To me, thats a red flag. I have run into it in the past, and when it happens, I politely back, out and grab a handfull of throttle :wink:

freeonthree's photo
Thu 07/08/10 12:56 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Thu 07/08/10 12:58 AM
What does jaded mean, please ?

justme659's photo
Thu 07/08/10 04:04 AM

What does jaded mean, please ?


Worn out, wearied, exhausted or lacking enthusiasm, due to age or experience.
Made callous

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 07/08/10 06:22 AM



The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:




You know me to well bigsmile



Sons of biatches smokin :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/08/10 08:31 AM




The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:




You know me to well bigsmile



Sons of biatches smokin :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:






Poor bastardlaugh laugh

no photo
Thu 07/08/10 09:59 PM

I honestly think some people keep themselves out of the dating scene by doing this, it's going out on dates not war strategylaugh laugh




laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 07/08/10 10:05 PM





The only conclusions I can come up with is they are either married/ in a relationship & are bored/lonely( I've ran into a few married ones) or they just like to play games. Other than that ...**** or get off the pot I say:smile:



OMG .. such a Boston phrase I LOVE IT!!!!:laughing:




You know me to well bigsmile



Sons of biatches smokin :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:






Poor bastardlaugh laugh




Good times drinks

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