watched the first 22 seconds of the video...know already where its going, and where the road ends...

yes, i've had those thoughts....and i know the ones..but some of those thoughts are too hurtful, so i try not to remember..

instead, i try to create new thoughts...new memories....happy ones..happy moments...like now = )

roko

na..life move not backwards nor tarries for yesterday...

I'd be lying if I said I never had those thoughts, but when I stopped having them, I knew I was ready to move on...

I've had the same thoughts as in that song... Especially with my last relationship, after it ended. I thought I wanted him back, but after a while and reflecting back on that relationship, it was not a healthy relationship for me. I then started questioning why I wasn't the one who ended it, when I had every right to end it with the way he had abused me, but I always told myself that I loved him, and ignored it. Definitely wasn't the best relationship I've had. I've moved on and I stopped thinking like that, because it is unhealthy for me.

That's when "Already Gone" comes into play eh?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0T3WAbU6tg


I too wish you had been the one to do it. Then you wouldn't have as many re-thinking thoughts

Yes, that song sure does relate to the situation I was in. I do wish I was the one who ended it. Just gets frustrating from time to time when I do think back on it. I find that relationship took a lot out of me, especially what little trust I did have to begin with. I have been working on building up trust again, but it seems that trust is lost for me.

It's funny how when we are IN the situation, the road out is just so difficult to find.
I've never dealt with physical abuse, but definitely emotional. And once you're beaten down it's unbelievably hard to believe in yourself enough to even say goodbye.


Unhealthy relationships SUCK. I'm glad I'm out of mine and that you are too

I am glad to hear you're out of your unhealthy relationship, and I am definitely happy to be out of that relationship. Now here's to finding someone who will treat us right

I got out of mine over a year ago. Was in another relationship after that and interestingly enough the trust all came back again ..

But single again now .. so I'll drink to that!!!

I've yet to find myself in another relationship. But I am in no rush, got a lot on my plate for the time being, I'm content enough spending my days with the cats (Somedays the idea of being a crazy cat lady sounds very tempting)

Pets give us that sense of being needed and are so loyal