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What makes them stay is a combination of low self esteem, fear and wanting to believe the men or women love them still. They have to make the move to leave and will usually return a couple of times before they will realize the kind of love this man or woman is offering is not a healthy one. Very true. When kids are involved or financial dependence play roles in this situation it is harder. even if there were kids why stay in a relationship if your not happy or even if there is a issue with emotional,physicaly abusive there is no point on staying.you can find a way out my daughter was with her kids dad on and off for 10yrs before they even got married and when they finally did. his own mom stated she would give them a yr and she was right. they split up right before there 1st annerversary.. and he was abusive towards my daughter. she saw something that we didnt and she got into a lesbian relationship last yr and everyone incudling her friends saw the abuse. my daughter didnt listen. and in every readinbg i gave my daughter it showed abuse, brake ups and she took my grandkids and moved over to tinian with her partner(now ex0 and right before they were leaving i told her i would see her in 6months she laughed about it... i was right my daughter and her ex partner broke up and they were back home in the 6months i had said Because some women can't leave. Not everyone is the same. They may feel they can't or don't know how to. They may also want to work things out or don't want to lose "love". Some think it'll get better. i think that my daughter may had felt that with her ex hubby i recall when my oldest granddaughter was about 2yrs old my daughter and the kids dad were living together and he had his cousins over, she was talking to his cousin and he accused my daughter cheating with him which she wasent. he gave her a black eye and she covered the brusie up with makeup. my mom saw it but i never did.. my daughter even took a class way prior on abuse. and she just didnt want to face the problem i guess.. he had issue with drugs and alcohol and he even went to rehab before they got married. and it seem to help for awhile.. |
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