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It's weird. I love going out with guys and going out in general but lately I feel like in a slump where I just dont feel like the hassle of getting ready and stuff to go meet people. I have gone out a few times this week I always have a good time but I just dont feel motivated. I wonder why.
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Um, I couldn't tell ya'. But, I hope you heal from that. The world would be a dreary place if you didn't get out there! (lol)
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It's weird. I love going out with guys and going out in general but lately I feel like in a slump where I just dont feel like the hassle of getting ready and stuff to go meet people. I have gone out a few times this week I always have a good time but I just dont feel motivated. I wonder why.  don't mind that as much though 
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I have moments where I wanna be a semi-recluse. It doesn't last long, and it makes peopl forget I exist...until I come back out....and do some wild crap that lands me on the front page of the local newspaper. But I swear...that guy in the pic on the front page? It aint Goof!
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I love going out. I always have a blast. I'm not really looking to date anyone though. Wonder if there is some connection?........
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 09/22/10 07:22 PM
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the connection I am most familiar with when guys say that is that they don;t want to pay for a date....in which case the FWB option is what u r looking for? In my ample expereince- most of the guys I know who want FWB just simply do not want to pay for a date.
unfortunately it's almost as tho the measure of how serious a guy is about u/or how much he is into u is whether he will take u out with him, NOT whether he will sleep with u - sorry - jmho (unless I misunderstand what u mean) |
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I love going out too, even with my good friends but lately, havent been in the mood for some reason. I am not looking for a boyfriend right now, but I've always enjoyed going out and meeting new people. Maybe I am just tired who knows. Last week or so things have just felt more like a chore than an outing. I wish it didnt because I really need that break from my kids. Maybe I am missing the luxury of hanging out at home and having my husband there already just hanging out with me the whole time. Sometimes I think that is it too because going out requires so much maintenance and with the kids I can't exactly have people over which makes it more time consuming and more difficult.
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i just wannna go to the club have a good time
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the connection I am most familiar with when guys say that is that they don;t want to pay for a date....in which case the FWB option is what u r looking for? In my ample expereince- most of the guys I know who want FWB just simply do not want to pay for a date. unfortunately it's almost as tho the measure of how serious a guy is about u/or how much he is into u is whether he will take u out with him, NOT whether he will sleep with u - sorry - jmho (unless I misunderstand what u mean) Yes you did but thats ok.........
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i just wannna go to the club have a good time Totally! 
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Edited by
Oceanbluze
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Wed 09/22/10 07:38 PM
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guys always pay for my dates. . even when I offer.
hmm sigh, i dont even want to go to a club. It's like I want to put on my sweats and watch Survivor and the Kardashians and the Spin Crowd o and the Soup. Plus sometime Stephen Colbert Show--- maybe I am depressed or something or getting lazy, hmm maybe its the weather. |
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guys always pay for my dates. . even when I offer. Yeah. We do that on the first few dates. Around date five, biatch better have my money! 
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guys always pay for my dates. . even when I offer. Yeah. We do that on the first few dates. Around date five, biatch better have my money! Or be putting out by then!!! Guess you'll have to continue paying for her drinks tho!  
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the connection I am most familiar with when guys say that is that they don;t want to pay for a date....in which case the FWB option is what u r looking for? In my ample expereince- most of the guys I know who want FWB just simply do not want to pay for a date. unfortunately it's almost as tho the measure of how serious a guy is about u/or how much he is into u is whether he will take u out with him, NOT whether he will sleep with u - sorry - jmho (unless I misunderstand what u mean) I don't really see what paying for a date has to do with anything. It seems as if you're saying they're not serious enough for you if they're not willing to pay for everything. |
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guys always pay for my dates. . even when I offer. Yeah. We do that on the first few dates. Around date five, biatch better have my money! Or be putting out by then!!! Guess you'll have to continue paying for her drinks tho! |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 09/22/10 07:50 PM
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I love going out too, even with my good friends but lately, havent been in the mood for some reason. I am not looking for a boyfriend right now, but I've always enjoyed going out and meeting new people. Maybe I am just tired who knows. Last week or so things have just felt more like a chore than an outing. I wish it didnt because I really need that break from my kids. Maybe I am missing the luxury of hanging out at home and having my husband there already just hanging out with me the whole time. Sometimes I think that is it too because going out requires so much maintenance and with the kids I can't exactly have people over which makes it more time consuming and more difficult. can u have- like 1 or 2 people over after the kids go to bed? |
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the connection I am most familiar with when guys say that is that they don;t want to pay for a date....in which case the FWB option is what u r looking for? In my ample expereince- most of the guys I know who want FWB just simply do not want to pay for a date. unfortunately it's almost as tho the measure of how serious a guy is about u/or how much he is into u is whether he will take u out with him, NOT whether he will sleep with u - sorry - jmho (unless I misunderstand what u mean) Yes you did but thats ok......... |
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the connection I am most familiar with when guys say that is that they don;t want to pay for a date....in which case the FWB option is what u r looking for? In my ample expereince- most of the guys I know who want FWB just simply do not want to pay for a date. unfortunately it's almost as tho the measure of how serious a guy is about u/or how much he is into u is whether he will take u out with him, NOT whether he will sleep with u - sorry - jmho (unless I misunderstand what u mean) Yes you did but thats ok......... No worries. Understood.......... 
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It's weird. I love going out with guys and going out in general but lately I feel like in a slump where I just dont feel like the hassle of getting ready and stuff to go meet people. I have gone out a few times this week I always have a good time but I just dont feel motivated. I wonder why.
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guys always pay for my dates. . even when I offer. hmm sigh, i dont even want to go to a club. It's like I want to put on my sweats and watch Survivor and the Kardashians and the Spin Crowd o and the Soup. Plus sometime Stephen Colbert Show--- maybe I am depressed or something or getting lazy, hmm maybe its the weather. now & then when a friend was performing or sometihng |
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