Topic: Perfect date for newbie ???
max56's photo
Wed 11/03/10 04:47 PM

Hello, I would like to get some advice/opinion on perfect date.

I'm a manga story writer in my past 20 years I was busy with work and study so I never actually had a real date before, only fantasy dates like in mangas, ( its part of my job) meeting the girl, going to shopping, watching a movie together, and having a dinner together, everything also depends on the mood ( or the story ;]] )...

So please could you give me some advice what girls like for their first dates??

And one more thing I would like to get some advice on how to talk to the girl you like if you meet her on the street, because I'm usually get shy and can't say anything to her...

Thank you for your opinions,

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 11/03/10 04:50 PM
Talk to them?

Really, you have to set your own comfort zones. First date kind of relies on you and the other party, such as what you both would like to do. If you do a movie, go for horror, because at least then she will cling to you.

Dinner is typically best, much like your manga story, relationships are not much different other than you have to think on your feet.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 11/03/10 04:56 PM
exactly....ask them. get to know them. you will get a feel for their interests.

I personally would rather shoot pool on a first date. It's casual and laid back. Others might prefer a nice dinner.

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 11/03/10 05:00 PM
A great first date would be a simple lunch or dinner date. You get to talk to your date...know their personality...their likes and dislikes. Just get a feel of the person you are with. After that, if you have time, you can decide to continue the date with a movie or maybe go somewhere fun (depending on where you live).

no photo
Wed 11/03/10 07:06 PM
I'm with Chick. Alunch date with maybe a movie after or walk on the beach/ park. that way you can extend it if things are going great. As far as advice on conversation. aks them about themselves. open ended questions are best. Good Luck :smile:

max56's photo
Thu 11/04/10 03:52 PM
thank you for your opinions/ advice I will take a note of it ;pp

( P.S. you just inspired me for my new story ;]] )