Topic: Is it wrong 2 get what you want or b mad bout it?
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Fri 11/12/10 09:06 PM
I work very hard to get what I want and therefore, I very often DO get what i want. When i don't, I get annoyed! Many times I have been told I am spoiled and selfish! Yet I am one of the most giving people I know and always put others before me.
Is it so wrong to be angry when i dont get my way?

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 11/12/10 09:23 PM


Is it so wrong to be angry when i dont get my way?



how's that working for ya?





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Fri 11/12/10 09:24 PM
Is that one of the reasons your guy has a bad temper?

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Fri 11/12/10 09:29 PM



Is it so wrong to be angry when i dont get my way?



how's that working for ya?







Yeah I have two kids who act like that when they don't get their way. Can't imagine being with a woman who does that too...

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Fri 11/12/10 09:31 PM
i work hard to get what i want. i definitely dont expect things handed to me. and my guys temper is because of him! he has never had a problem with me getting my way about things. its other people like my stepmom

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Fri 11/12/10 09:32 PM

i work hard to get what i want. i definitely dont expect things handed to me. and my guys temper is because of him! he has never had a problem with me getting my way about things. its other people like my stepmom



Ok well working hard for what you want, and "getting your way" are two totally different things.

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Fri 11/12/10 09:33 PM




Is it so wrong to be angry when i dont get my way?



how's that working for ya?







Yeah I have two kids who act like that when they don't get their way. Can't imagine being with a woman who does that too...

Its not like i throw temper tantrums or something. i just think that when you want something you make it happen! and if you dont get it, its a bummer and i dont think people should get mad at me for being upset about it!

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Fri 11/12/10 09:33 PM
Most people work hard.. I work my azz off.. I have most of what I want, I buy it for myself and do everything for myself.. I do not get mad when I don't get what I want, I figure I need to work harder AND that some things just aren't meant to be...

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Fri 11/12/10 09:36 PM





Is it so wrong to be angry when i dont get my way?



how's that working for ya?







Yeah I have two kids who act like that when they don't get their way. Can't imagine being with a woman who does that too...

Its not like i throw temper tantrums or something. i just think that when you want something you make it happen! and if you dont get it, its a bummer and i dont think people should get mad at me for being upset about it!


I guess its hard to understand unless you gave an example. cause yeah lol I was kinda picturing you throwing a tantrum or something. lol

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Fri 11/12/10 09:36 PM

I work very hard to get what I want and therefore, I very often DO get what i want. When i don't, I get annoyed! Many times I have been told I am spoiled and selfish! Yet I am one of the most giving people I know and always put others before me.
Is it so wrong to be angry when i dont get my way?


Yes.............smokin

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Fri 11/12/10 09:37 PM
Sounds like a lot of this===>frustrated

You asked if it's wrong. For me it would be. To much stress to deal with and I have enough as it is.

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Fri 11/12/10 09:38 PM
bazz, I couldn't help but notice the baby in your arms.....
if you have children, don't get mad at them for throwing tantrums, your teaching them. just sayin

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Fri 11/12/10 09:39 PM
hmmm. well i guess i am a spoiled brat. But what else is there in life than working and having the things in life that you want? I want my guy to stop being a jerk so he can be a good dad... i think thats my biggest problem right now, i cant make it happen like buying a house or something!

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Fri 11/12/10 09:43 PM
My mama always said if you aren't happy do something about it......smokin

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Fri 11/12/10 09:43 PM
You can be a very giving person and SAY you always put others before you, but how can you do that when you are working so hard at getting what YOU want so YOU won't get annoyed? That sounds to me like you are putting your wants first, and "giving" from what is leftover....kinda of like "re-gifting" what you weren't happy with, that you settled for.

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Fri 11/12/10 09:53 PM
If you trying to change a man...you will NEVER get what you want!

With those creatures (no offense guys) you need to find one that at your level (as Eddie Murphy puts it "just as effed up in the head as you are") to settle down with and accept him for the man he is!