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TxsSun
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Mon 01/24/11 06:31 PM
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Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in?
"Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc..... I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me? Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"? |
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A sad need for attention, I suppose....I just try to jump in and have fun and don't worry about what others think. Would rather they just like me for who I am than to convince me that I am likeable
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Ive loved myself for tooooo long...time to give some away to that special lady with a sweet warm box
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A sad need for attention, I suppose....I just try to jump in and have fun and don't worry about what others think. Would rather they just like me for who I am than to convince me that I am likeable I'm starting to think so myself and yes I agree. Liking me for me is a wonderful thing. Maybe  |
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would you validate my parking ticket ???
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Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in? "Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc..... I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me? Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"? I totally agree... Does this new pic make me look fat? |
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would you validate my parking ticket ??? You can never ever leave 
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would you validate my parking ticket ??? You can never ever leave 
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I really didn't see the one post as her needing validated. I just sort of took it as she was putting herself out there and trying to attract the kind of men that liked what she had to offer. It's all in context I guess. Sort of a newbie thing maybe. :P
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Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in? "Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc..... I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me? Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"? I totally agree... Does this new pic make me look fat? What happened to your face? 
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I totally agree & have thought about posting something similar myself. I don't need any validation from anyone to know who & what I am. If I answer any of these post at all I usually have some snide remark like "It's ok but nothing exceptional" or something to that effect. Attention whores are just sickening!! JMHO
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Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in? "Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc..... I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me? Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"? I totally agree... Does this new pic make me look fat? What happened to your face? I wanted to look classy, so I shaved. |
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I really didn't see the one post as her needing validated. I just sort of took it as she was putting herself out there and trying to attract the kind of men that liked what she had to offer. It's all in context I guess. Sort of a newbie thing maybe. :P I somewhat agree Heather, though there have been several. Even as a newbie I never asked because I am proud of who/what I am. |
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Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in? "Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc..... I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me? Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"? I totally agree... Does this new pic make me look fat? What happened to your face? I wanted to look classy, so I shaved.
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Without my personal approval, I am not sure why people would even want to live!
So, of course they are gonna do anything to gain my attention. :) |
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Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in? "Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc..... I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me? Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"? I totally agree... Does this new pic make me look fat? What happened to your face? I wanted to look classy, so I shaved. But you got rid of the best features. The eyes, the nose, the smile
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I think it's some peoples' way of saying... "LOOK AT ME"!!! Lol! It actually works for a lot of them. Well, at least they're getting the kind of reaction they're looking for... Not necessarily what they need.
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I think it's some peoples' way of saying... "LOOK AT ME"!!! Lol! It actually works for a lot of them. Well, at least they're getting the kind of reaction they're looking for... Not necessarily what they need. Yep....same reason I am typing this with no pants on. |
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I think it's some peoples' way of saying... "LOOK AT ME"!!! Lol! It actually works for a lot of them. Well, at least they're getting the kind of reaction they're looking for... Not necessarily what they need. Smart one you are!  I agree. They don't need it, it is what they want. Very good point! |
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Txssun..i can give you my number..and please tell me you will while i clean my pole
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