Yeah, men are not hard to read. Take Goofball's and bulldog's advice.

facebook must be messin up cause i can't find the convo of his relationship status anymore i wish facebook was reliable like mingle

Ok so there is this guy that I have been attracted to since the moment I laid my eyes on him...The problem is that we met at the wrong time...I was just getting out of my last relationship, dealing with health problems with father and grandmother, and finishing up a semester in school. It finally became too much that I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship because I would go to hang out with him, and I wouldn't be very sociable. He told me not to worry about it, and he gave me signals like he would wait for me. I didn't talk to him for over a month, but I thought about him everyday..Finally things in my life were starting to calm down, so I tried to get back together with him to find out that he had a girlfriend. Well I have just found out the he is single again. I talked to my bff which is also friends with him, and she said she thinks that he needs to be single for a while. But I just can't get him outta my head still...When we were together, I could tell something was there, and it's hurting me not knowing if it could have ever been something....what should I do? I don't want to seem desperate or pathetic, and I don't want to embarrass myself and throw myself at him again...HELP