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Topic: Is dating still fun for you?
roadlesstrvld's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:40 PM
Do you still have fun finding and meeting new people or is it getting old?

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Wed 03/23/11 08:42 PM
Dating never was fun for me. It's just something that you have to do in order to get through to a real relationship.

roadlesstrvld's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:44 PM
So you don't get a rush learning all about them and their life? And seeing if there is a spark?

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Wed 03/23/11 08:44 PM
Edited by Troublebug on Wed 03/23/11 09:22 PM
I LOVE meeting new people. I think you can rediscover things about yourself, when you are finding out about others.
Dating? Since I became single again, I really haven't been on any actual dates.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:45 PM
Hummm it would probable be a lot of fun if I had someone to date.....whoa not to much into the random dates here and there much more easier to just hit it alone instead....bigsmile


As far as meeting new people I would rather just meet them as friends instead.....

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Wed 03/23/11 08:47 PM
i don't date. i let people who are on their way to a conference in another city stay at my house for a few... oh wait, i was living someone else's life for a minute there

roadlesstrvld's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:48 PM

I LOVE meeting new people. I think you can rediscover things about yourself, when you are finding out about others.
Dating? Since I became single again, I really have been on any actual dates.


I agree...about rediscovering things about yourself

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:48 PM
Boy I'm gonna hurt you yet~~~~~~~~~~:tongue: :tongue: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

navygirl's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:48 PM

Do you still have fun finding and meeting new people or is it getting old?


Its getting old for me. I am getting to the point that even if I have a date; I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent. Starting to think dating is just a waste of my time when I could be doing something more productive.

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Wed 03/23/11 08:51 PM


Do you still have fun finding and meeting new people or is it getting old?

Its getting old for me. I am getting to the point that even if I have a date; I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent. Starting to think dating is just a waste of my time when I could be doing something more productive.

you are absolutely right. let's paint my house

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Wed 03/23/11 08:51 PM
So you don't get a rush learning all about them and their life? And seeing if there is a spark?
No. I don't think you do learn all about them when you are dating. The biographical data is the least interesting stuff about a person. How they function in a relationship is what I'm after. You don't learn that until you're actually in the relationship. If there is a spark, the biographical data is just the details. Without the spark all you are doing is digging away at eachothers' masks.

navygirl's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:53 PM



Do you still have fun finding and meeting new people or is it getting old?

Its getting old for me. I am getting to the point that even if I have a date; I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent. Starting to think dating is just a waste of my time when I could be doing something more productive.

you are absolutely right. let's paint my house


As long as you pay me for me time; I am there.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:53 PM
Nope, don't like to date.

roadlesstrvld's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:54 PM

Hummm it would probable be a lot of fun if I had someone to date.....whoa not to much into the random dates here and there much more easier to just hit it alone instead....bigsmile


As far as meeting new people I would rather just meet them as friends instead.....


ok...but the possibility that that friend might have sparks...isn't that exciting?

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Wed 03/23/11 08:54 PM




Do you still have fun finding and meeting new people or is it getting old?

Its getting old for me. I am getting to the point that even if I have a date; I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent. Starting to think dating is just a waste of my time when I could be doing something more productive.

you are absolutely right. let's paint my house

As long as you pay me for me time; I am there.

america, i love this country. pay a woman for her time and she is all yours :tongue:

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:55 PM
I hardly go on dates, so I find it exciting to go out. It makes me feel good that a guy would like to take me out.

navygirl's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:57 PM





Do you still have fun finding and meeting new people or is it getting old?

Its getting old for me. I am getting to the point that even if I have a date; I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent. Starting to think dating is just a waste of my time when I could be doing something more productive.

you are absolutely right. let's paint my house

As long as you pay me for me time; I am there.

america, i love this country. pay a woman for her time and she is all yours :tongue:

Same here in Canada. pitchfork

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Wed 03/23/11 08:57 PM
I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent.
Hard for me to believe. I looked at your profile once. Thought you were a pretty attractive and interesting lady. I might have questioned whether a military life would be compatible with me, but not for lack of attraction. Of course, that's not for me to say.

navygirl's photo
Wed 03/23/11 08:59 PM

I am asking what is the point? He won't call me again now that he knows I have a brain and I am independent.
Hard for me to believe. I looked at your profile once. Thought you were a pretty attractive and interesting lady. I might have questioned whether a military life would be compatible with me, but not for lack of attraction. Of course, that's not for me to say.


I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life.

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Wed 03/23/11 09:04 PM
I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life.
Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.

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