Apparently, my b*&%ch button is broken :) We do think alike & will definitely have to hang out some time! What part of Texas are you in again?

Definately...I am in North Houston...Huffman

How to get and keep a man................................


UMMM, Show up naked and bring beer? well that would be how to get
To keep, handcuff him to the bed?

I am going to handcuff anaconda when he gets here, that way he cannot escape.

Josie Sweetie, I don;t think you have to worry about him trying to escape. You got him hook, line and sinker.
And I'm so happy for you two

Yeh but he still has to meet the children from hell

Mum and Poppy have bets that he will be trying to book the first plane out after 10 days.. They think once he sees us in our natural habitat he will run..

Soooo just for safety sake, I will chain him up

Hmm, with a list like that why would I want to keep that man? Would rather be alone personally.

Still waiting for a realistic and practical answer. I'm curious if women really have any real idea.

Oh gosh its easy, you love him, the same as we want to be loved.

but ultimately if you marry the wrong person you will never hold him anyway, so its about finding the right person and working together, to keep your love alive.

In theory, remind him everyday that your life is better because he's in it and that his is better because you're in it. Show him you love him by listening when he needs to talk and shutting up when he doesn't want to hear it anymore. Give him food when he's hungry, please him when he seeks pleasure, hold him when he wants to be held, and leave him alone when he needs his space. Admit it when he's right and even more importantly, forgive him when he's wrong because that's going to happen at a much greater frequency!

Not sure if that's either realistic or practical but it makes sense to me...too bad I can't find "the keeper" to test the theory on!!!

Sounds pretty good to me. Makes one wonder why husbands and wives eventually take each other for granted. By the time the kids are gone a typical married couple seem to be more like roommates who happen to also have a marriage license.

hm.... i am a woman, and i need to say human interaction is better.
i love sex. more than most people i know actually. so my man will never leave me for not enjoying sex or not giving him enough blowjobs at least. lol
i am spending vacations with my family and im one month away from him, will be back home in one week, but im someone that likes to have sex everyday. i would have 2 or 3 times a day if possible. and we are 2 years and a half together so it isnt the honeymoon phase anymore.
me using my dildo here or using my fingers to get an orgasm is simply not the same of having my boyfriend making me 'get there'. it just isnt. maybe im too much of a man when it comes to sex. i dont know how bad is that, but the best thing about sex with a partner is the touch, the smell, the kisses, feeling them against you, no doll (or dildo in a womens case) can make up for that.

hit him over the head and if that don't work

what evah

So what does the man (or woman) do when "ME" changes and they develope into someone they don't have interest in?

The one relationship that lasted the longest (6yrs)..she basically could read my mind and it wasn't difficult really. She finished my sentences..and figured out what I wanted..or just made me want it.

and wd40

indianadave4,

People don't change all that much.

When they are courting each other you will see the courting personality, and they are on their best behavior. If you expect that is who they are in totality, you are just blinded by your infatuation.

They can't keep that up forever, so its best not to jump into marriage right away. If you live with a person, you will get to know them better, but you still don't know their "married" personality.

And I don't care how long you live together, something always changes after you get married, no matter how much you both promise it won't.

But people themselves really don't change all that much.

Perceptions do change. Expectations will change. Attitudes change.

After the kids came the ex became a wall flower. Work, dinner and tv. That was it. Actually she was like that when I knew of her in high school but I never dated her because I like being out and about. When in college she became an outgoing person. She reverted back to what she was and in high school I never had interest in her.

I was only talking about myself as I am a little different and frustrating at times, I never hide who i am and there is nothing that you wouldnt see, I havent changed in personality likes or just myself in 20 years.
So basically what you see is what you would get.

How to get an keep a man?

Keep him on his toes. Flirt.
Always make him feel that you could have any guy you want.