Every relationship I've had, whether long or short term, all started the same way. We had sexual intercourse within a few hours (together) of meeting. Some of them lasted a few weeks, while others lasted many years. So, IMHO the best way to start a relationship is by having sex with that person ASAP.

Step 1: Track her movements....

The brunette is involved in case anyone wishes to sue me for being biased to blondes. I get accused tons for only lusting blondes (watches hot blonde walk by) But it is all hearsay. I swear.

My 15 years old dating experience:

1. Eye with one of the girls you like in middle-school, until she looks nervous, then go talk to her. Everything is a smooth ride from there.

my 19 years old experience of starting to date
1. Get a job in a restaurant
2. Hook up with one of the waitresses.


my 35 years old experience:

1. I have no idea. Women won't eye with me, and I don't work in a restaurant.

I know some people think that once they start seeing a person, they think it's gotta be all gung ho serious right off the bat. I've been guilty of this before, but I've learned a little in my day, lol.

Going slow early on is a good way to approach it, that is if you want to try to establish basis for a good, possible long-term relationship. Hooking up and having sex within a short time frame of knowing each other doesn't mean it's going to last. I don't see "love at first sight", it's more like "lust at first sight".

The only way to know if you wanna possibly committ to a long term relationship with someone is time. You gotta take time to get to know someone, find out their likes, dislikes, pet peeves, what they want out of life, ect..... Jumping right in and expecting it to work because you are dating exclusively or having sex right off, does not do that. That just shows attraction to each other, and not that it's a sure fire bet he or she will be the "one".

Patience is the key, and in today's world not too many have that. They jump right into things because of attraction and or lust, only to find out down the road the person you are with isn't the person you thought they were from the get go. Besides patience, honesty is another huge factor. Without these 2, how do you know? I mean seriously, how do you? You cannot. If you're in a hurry and or dishonest, how on earth do you think that a relationship based on lust and lies will ever work?

Just a couple things to consider

A casual dating relationship? Friendship? Marriage? What kind of relationship am I wanting?

Hmmm...how to start a relationship?

"Hello" usually works pretty well for me...

...then I say something back if he replies...

We go from there...

This is going to sound dumb but i need help i hve found some ready interest ladys have sent messages but still no hits i know i don't have pic up still trying to figure this out my screen name is stupid but i picked it for a car part not my tummy, Help what do you guys know that i don't?