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Ok....here goes....am going in.  Firstly....the 1991 threw me, and I almost gave latitude for being all of 20...then read that you are 37 Cindy... so unless you were married at 12, have lived in an Ashram...(in Las Vegas???)...and have had ONLY one relationship your whole adult life, I am wondering why would you ask such a ridiculous question, that borders on naive cutesy....and realistically, for all appearance sake, is nothing more than an attention seeking post...a 'hook'... ok...on topic.... you're 37... you can have sex with every bloke that lines up....and if you play the numbers game, eventually you will hook someone who is the opposite of whatever it is lacking in you. it is possible....it has been done...and if that's what floats your boat, sleep with enough blokes, eventually one of them will want to hang on to you... ...and then we can all answer your new threads on why he doesn't seem to respect you...  Personally I couldnt do it, but I sure would want to see some sign that he wasnt infected if he just randomly wanted to sleep with everyone he met. And for me I would want a man who wanted to know me, Not sure if its the same for men, but if you are planning on it dont hold to high a hopes.. And dont just end up with blokes who are only interested in that.. Oh and you are probably going to have to impress him pretty much straight of with your skils as he is not looking at your personality. But yep anything can happen. |
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Bwah hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just spat my coffee everywhere!!!!!!!! PLEEEEASEEEEEE can I answer this????? PLEEASEEEEEEEEEEEE mods look the other way.....  I say go for it...  Doing well and you? either or.. Joy works as well  
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LOL I'm serious I really want to know I was very serious.. Anything is possible.. You can't be sure of the time, day, person, place, etc but it has happened and can happen.. I don't think "waiting" makes a relationship work any better than not waiting.. It's the person/people involved that will make it work not whether you had sex soon after... What is soon anyway? The same night? a day, 3 days, a week, a month? If you're afraid of having sex too soon ruining the possibility of a relationship happening then you should decide what time frame you are comfortable with and have that discussion with those you're interested in dating.. If they're not ok with it then you know they aren't the one.. If they are ok with it then you can "hope" they are the one... |
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Bwah hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just spat my coffee everywhere!!!!!!!! PLEEEEASEEEEEE can I answer this????? PLEEASEEEEEEEEEEEE mods look the other way..... I say go for it... Doing well and you? either or.. Joy works as well 
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Edited by
Jess642
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Wed 04/20/11 10:26 PM
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....12 minutes and 38 seconds...
 would that be 'soon'? 4 hours,...after 2 coffees, 3 beers, a steak dinner, and that's an imaginary steak...   .... I'd be too full...and would rather... .....what about....'hello'.....then do the humpy thing?...is that 'soon'?  hahaha! I could have some fun with this... I have two categories... disposable....that's the 'I want nothing more than a quick shag...and if you are remotely skillful in your pen *s puppetry...I might go there again..' version. and then there's the....' I can smell respect and genuine interest in this person...ticks a hell of a lot of boxes...think he may be a keeper'...and sex is somewhere between the 1st and 50th date....depending on how long the torment and sexual tension can be built for. |
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....12 minutes and 38 seconds... would that be 'soon'? 4 hours,...after 2 coffees, 3 beers, a steak dinner, and that's an imaginary steak... .... I'd be too full...and would rather... .....what about....'hello'.....then do the humpy thing?...is that 'soon'? hahaha! I could have some fun with this... I have two categories... disposable....that's the 'I want nothing more than a quick shag...and if you are remotely skillful in your pen *s puppetry...I might go there again..' version. and then there's the....' I can smell respect and genuine interest in this person...ticks a hell of a lot of boxes...think he may be a keeper'...and sex is somewhere between the 1st and 50th date....depending on how long the torment and sexual tension can be built for. So true Lee.. It's the person/people not the act... |
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....12 minutes and 38 seconds... would that be 'soon'? 4 hours,...after 2 coffees, 3 beers, a steak dinner, and that's an imaginary steak... .... I'd be too full...and would rather... .....what about....'hello'.....then do the humpy thing?...is that 'soon'? hahaha! I could have some fun with this... I have two categories... disposable....that's the 'I want nothing more than a quick shag...and if you are remotely skillful in your pen *s puppetry...I might go there again..' version. and then there's the....' I can smell respect and genuine interest in this person...ticks a hell of a lot of boxes...think he may be a keeper'...and sex is somewhere between the 1st and 50th date....depending on how long the torment and sexual tension can be built for. |
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just bone when you wanna bone and if he/she wants to be your man/woman then see if it works out,if not,try to stay friends and bone
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just bone when you wanna bone and if he/she wants to be your man/woman then see if it works out,if not,try to stay friends and bone |
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Yes it can happen. Sex may even speed things along a bit. But before you do, find out if he is interested in a relationship or not. Don't have to ask if he would be interested in a relationship with you personally, just in general. Most guys I know have an opinion on the topic and are very straightforward about it. See what kind of answer you get from that question, it will tell you a lot. Just please don't be that type of broad who thinks if you throw a little sex his way then he will fall in love. He will only fall in love with the sex (if it is good) and thats all you will be good for. Been there, done that, learned some valuable lessons.
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just bone when you wanna bone and if he/she wants to be your man/woman then see if it works out,if not,try to stay friends and bone
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Yes it can happen. Sex may even speed things along a bit. But before you do, find out if he is interested in a relationship or not. Don't have to ask if he would be interested in a relationship with you personally, just in general. Most guys I know have an opinion on the topic and are very straightforward about it. See what kind of answer you get from that question, it will tell you a lot. Just please don't be that type of broad who thinks if you throw a little sex his way then he will fall in love. He will only fall in love with the sex (if it is good) and thats all you will be good for. Been there, done that, learned some valuable lessons. Broad????? 
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Yes it can happen. Sex may even speed things along a bit. But before you do, find out if he is interested in a relationship or not. Don't have to ask if he would be interested in a relationship with you personally, just in general. Most guys I know have an opinion on the topic and are very straightforward about it. See what kind of answer you get from that question, it will tell you a lot. Just please don't be that type of broad who thinks if you throw a little sex his way then he will fall in love. He will only fall in love with the sex (if it is good) and thats all you will be good for. Been there, done that, learned some valuable lessons. Broad????? A wide woman? hey..... I said 'bloke'... 
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just bone when you wanna bone and if he/she wants to be your man/woman then see if it works out,if not,try to stay friends and bone |
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Edited by
IndnPrncs
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Wed 04/20/11 11:02 PM
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Yes it can happen. Sex may even speed things along a bit. But before you do, find out if he is interested in a relationship or not. Don't have to ask if he would be interested in a relationship with you personally, just in general. Most guys I know have an opinion on the topic and are very straightforward about it. See what kind of answer you get from that question, it will tell you a lot. Just please don't be that type of broad who thinks if you throw a little sex his way then he will fall in love. He will only fall in love with the sex (if it is good) and thats all you will be good for. Been there, done that, learned some valuable lessons. Broad????? A wide woman? hey..... I said 'bloke'... Bloke to me means "guy/man" no?... Broad is as you stated "wide" or to most WOMEN has negative connotation... Kind of like referring to a male as fvckface, douchbag or tool...
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Edited by
Scorpio_WJR
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Wed 04/20/11 11:01 PM
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"broad" is kind of a less respectful way to call a female. From best to worst in my book it goes: Lady, Woman, Chick, Broad, Bi**h, Sl*t, Wh**e, etc... To me "bloke" feels kinda the same way.
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Edited by
Jess642
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Wed 04/20/11 11:00 PM
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Bloke to me means "guy/man" no?... Broad is as you stated "wide" or to most WOMEN has negative connotation... Kind of like referring to a male as fvckfac, douchbag or tool... WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Over here Joy...'broad' is just a 50's word for woman...no different to sheila, chick, lady... it's just an old fashioned word for woman....here... and it seemed to fit terminolgy wise...with me saying bloke. |
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Edited by
IndnPrncs
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To Scorpio: Yes I knew the context in which is was meant and didn't quite understand why it was necessary in that comment... I guess a "broad" thinks sex will keep the guy.. But I must ask "if" the sex is THAT good and does keep the guy, is she still a "BROAD"?
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just bone when you wanna bone and if he/she wants to be your man/woman then see if it works out,if not,try to stay friends and bone |
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Yes I knew the context in which is was meant and didn't quite understand why it was necessary in that comment... I guess a "broad" thinks sex will keep the guy.. But I must ask "if" the sex is THAT good and does keep the guy, is she still a "BROAD"? hahaha...wouldn't she become...'My Woman'...? 
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